I want to keep it simple, but do not like calla lilies. I do like wildflowers, but no sunflowers. My colors are dark blue (midnight/sapphire) and white. I%26#039;m thinking about adding a little accent of yellow, but can%26#039;t decide. My wedding is in May and because of that, I am feeling very overwhelmed on all the available flowers. I was maybe thinking of white carnations, daises, babies breath and blue roses, but don%26#039;t know if that is too fancy for what I want. Any suggestions would greately be appriciated.
Can%26#039;t decide on wedding flowers.?
Wow. Sometimes I feel like the only person on earth who doesn%26#039;t like cala lillies. It%26#039;s nice to know there%26#039;s someone else!
You%26#039;ve got some lovely ideas there for flowers. Other flowers you might consider are: bachelor%26#039;s buttons (ironic name, I know, but they%26#039;re a lovely deep blue and closer to wildflowers than your blue roses), heather (which comes in purple or white), snapdragons (they come in a lucious soft yellow as well as a positive rainbow of pastel shades), forget me nots (pretty, soft blue with yellow centers), or larkspur (comes in blue, purple, pink, white).
I love the idea of sticking mostly with wildflowers rather than the same sorts of flower everyone else carries.
Most of all, have fun putting your flowers together. Choose flowers you like and don%26#039;t let anyone talk you into those cala lillies if you don%26#039;t want them.
Reply:A friend of my did hydrangeas as a pretty blue flower: http://home-and-garden.webshots.com/phot...
you could put yellow statice as your flower:
http://www.lazyway.com/floral/other-bloo... (bottom left)
Reply:White carnations, daises, babies breath and blue roses are the cheapest and cheapest-looking flowers you could get! No, no, no. These are florist filler-flowers. The blue roses are not natural...they%26#039;re made by soaking the stems in blue dye - which causes the roses to expire early (do you want a dead bouquet?).
Check out the bridal bouquets on the martha stewart website for inspiration. Do all white with little blue flowers in between.
Reply:Simple and elegant would be white roses, I love daisies too.
How about white amarylis or white stargazer lilies, they are so beautiful and elegant. Definitely white with blue ribbon!
Good luck!
Reply:i LOVE daisies...they remind me of %26quot;fun%26quot; where as something like a calla lily seems more %26quot;formal%26quot;...
what if you did a mixed boquet of all white flowers? some daisies, some carnations, some lillies, some orchards---with blue satin ribbon going half way down the stems to hold the boquet together?
Reply:I had an April wedding that was really simple. I used orchids. You get many on one stalk and they go a long way. Plus they come in a variety of colors. If you search orchid bouquets you can see a variety of styles in the picture areas. You can have it as simple or as fancy as you would like.
Reply:Did you see a florist yet? I brought in swatches and she laid out several selection for me- depending where you want to fall in price. And they order flowers from all over the world- she had a book of 100 and 100 of flowers. I must have saw 100 in just pink and they had a whole yellow section.
Reply:I think it would be lovely to do a simple bouquet of white roses and babies breath, tied together with a blue ribbon. Very elegant. But do not mix roses with daisies.
Reply:i think hydrangeas are nice. they are blue and don%26#039;t have to be dyed blue. they have the same effect as carnations, but are a little better looking in my opinion. stick with the daises too...then you%26#039;ll have blue and white flowers with yellow accents!!! and they won%26#039;t be too fancy.
Reply:some blue bells or maybe some blue flax mixed with daisys and babies breath maybe some cone flowers mixed in
Reply:catcus.
Reply:Calla lilies and red roses (colors=apple and gold) are what Im going with. Dont be so overwhelmed. Mine is in June and if you%26#039;re already thinking detail you%26#039;ll get things done.
Best wished.
Reply:My colors are blue and white too, but regular blue. I haven%26#039;t decided on my flowers either, but here are some I really like: white roses (dipped in blue, perhaps), blue iris, white asiatic lilies (I don%26#039;t like calla lilies either), belladonna, chatham island forget-me-nots, morning glory (these have yellow in the middle, so that would be good if you decide to import yellow). Most likely I will go with a simple bouquet of white roses dipped in blue, maybe with jewels, or blue irises with white asiatic lilies. I hope this helps and congratulations!
Reply:The selection you have choses sounds lovely.
I love fresh crisp carnations. and I would definitely add in the yellow accent.
Go with your first instinct, that is what usually works.
performing arts
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Which one of these baby names is best?
im having a baby sister and would like help on picking a suitable name. the name must be arabic/urdu/persian or any other muslim names as we are muslim. any suggestions?
were thinking of naming the baby girl one of these names:
jessenia-meaning flower(arabic)
parisa-meaning angelic face, fairy like(persian)
celina-meaning moon in arabic
which sounds best and would be most popular?
Which one of these baby names is best?
I like Celina, very pretty.
Reply:I LOVE Parisa, it%26#039;s so pretty. It%26#039;s different but not weird. My second choice would be Celina.
Reply:if you don%26#039;t want her to be prejudiced against, I%26#039;d suggest a name like Jane
Reply:How about Bob.
Reply:I really like the name Jessenia!!
Reply:Parisa............because I love fairy%26#039;s very pretty name I think.
Reply:I Say Parisa Its A Very Rare Name And I Love The Meaning It Sure Describes Me
Reply:celina is pretty
Reply:jessenia and celina are nice... im not too sure i like parisa
Reply:dont you want a name that WONT be too popular(no mix ups in class). n e ways...i think PARISA is the best i dont think anyone in her generation would have that name....♥
Reply:Celina (at least it doesn%26#039;t sound foreign)
Reply:Parisa
Reply:I like Jessenia and Parisa. I think a name should have a good meaning, but maybe they should hold off on the actual picking till she is born. I find people like they%26#039;re names better if it fits they%26#039;re personality. Hope this helps.
But of the two I think Jessenia is cuter and more serene.
Reply:Celina... suits a gal belongin to most cultures %26amp; religions! congrats on havin a baby sis! take gud care of her! all the best!
Reply:I like Jessenia. It is a beautiful name and your little sister will be as delicate as a flower. The name Jessenia flows freely from my lips. It has a melodic and feminine sound to it, and an added bonus is that it is different. I don%26#039;t know of anyone named Jessenia.
Reply:if i was i child, i think i would much rather live with the name celina. THINK ABOUT THE BABY!!
Reply:OMG, I like Celina. I%26#039;m gonna use that name for my baby girl. :)
Reply:jessenina sounds best to me.
all of them end with ahh.
humm. explore other options too.
Reply:I got to help name both my younger sisters. either Jessinia or Parisa, Celina is to common and mainstream. A unique name will always be remembered, especially on a resume. Plus when shes older she can go by Jess, or Paris....
Reply:Celina sounds better, and is more popular
Reply:parisa....celina sounds too common.
Reply:wait...YOURE having a baby sister?....hows that happen!?!are you sure your moms not having it?
Reply:Very modern sounding names....i thought muslims would prefer traditional type names....of all, I alike Pairsa best but actually prefer a more local type name like something starting with %26quot;sha...%26quot;
Good luck !
Reply:They are all beautiful names. If you%26#039;re going for most popular, Celina would probably be the most likely to be popular. If you would rather have a unique name that bunches of other children won%26#039;t have, I would choose Parisa. Any of the three you choose will be lovely! Enjoy your baby sister!
(My baby sister is 27 now, and her name is Melissa; I picked that one, too!)
Reply:jessenia veryyyy pretty
Reply:I%26#039;m fond of Celina. but another beautiful name is Ahlam. I have a friend named Ahlam ... I just think it%26#039;s very ethnic and unique.
Just remember that naming a baby is permanent and that it should be something that you like and are happy with. Just go with your gut. ;)
Reply:Parisa. It will remind people of Paris, and it has special meaning for your family/heritage.
Reply:Preferably Jessenia but Parisa is also a lovely one, by the way don%26#039;t choose a very popular and hackneyed name.
Reply:Parichehr is nice Persian name which means angel face, Parirokh (same meaning) and Parizaad (angel born) .... don%26#039;t select a damn Arabic name (if you%26#039;re really Persian) ...
Reply:They are all beautiful names... i prefer jessenia!
I really like the way it sounds!!!
Good Luck %26amp; Congratulations on your new sister!!!
Reply:G-d dsoesn%26#039;t want you to know
fitness
were thinking of naming the baby girl one of these names:
jessenia-meaning flower(arabic)
parisa-meaning angelic face, fairy like(persian)
celina-meaning moon in arabic
which sounds best and would be most popular?
Which one of these baby names is best?
I like Celina, very pretty.
Reply:I LOVE Parisa, it%26#039;s so pretty. It%26#039;s different but not weird. My second choice would be Celina.
Reply:if you don%26#039;t want her to be prejudiced against, I%26#039;d suggest a name like Jane
Reply:How about Bob.
Reply:I really like the name Jessenia!!
Reply:Parisa............because I love fairy%26#039;s very pretty name I think.
Reply:I Say Parisa Its A Very Rare Name And I Love The Meaning It Sure Describes Me
Reply:celina is pretty
Reply:jessenia and celina are nice... im not too sure i like parisa
Reply:dont you want a name that WONT be too popular(no mix ups in class). n e ways...i think PARISA is the best i dont think anyone in her generation would have that name....♥
Reply:Celina (at least it doesn%26#039;t sound foreign)
Reply:Parisa
Reply:I like Jessenia and Parisa. I think a name should have a good meaning, but maybe they should hold off on the actual picking till she is born. I find people like they%26#039;re names better if it fits they%26#039;re personality. Hope this helps.
But of the two I think Jessenia is cuter and more serene.
Reply:Celina... suits a gal belongin to most cultures %26amp; religions! congrats on havin a baby sis! take gud care of her! all the best!
Reply:I like Jessenia. It is a beautiful name and your little sister will be as delicate as a flower. The name Jessenia flows freely from my lips. It has a melodic and feminine sound to it, and an added bonus is that it is different. I don%26#039;t know of anyone named Jessenia.
Reply:if i was i child, i think i would much rather live with the name celina. THINK ABOUT THE BABY!!
Reply:OMG, I like Celina. I%26#039;m gonna use that name for my baby girl. :)
Reply:jessenina sounds best to me.
all of them end with ahh.
humm. explore other options too.
Reply:I got to help name both my younger sisters. either Jessinia or Parisa, Celina is to common and mainstream. A unique name will always be remembered, especially on a resume. Plus when shes older she can go by Jess, or Paris....
Reply:Celina sounds better, and is more popular
Reply:parisa....celina sounds too common.
Reply:wait...YOURE having a baby sister?....hows that happen!?!are you sure your moms not having it?
Reply:Very modern sounding names....i thought muslims would prefer traditional type names....of all, I alike Pairsa best but actually prefer a more local type name like something starting with %26quot;sha...%26quot;
Good luck !
Reply:They are all beautiful names. If you%26#039;re going for most popular, Celina would probably be the most likely to be popular. If you would rather have a unique name that bunches of other children won%26#039;t have, I would choose Parisa. Any of the three you choose will be lovely! Enjoy your baby sister!
(My baby sister is 27 now, and her name is Melissa; I picked that one, too!)
Reply:jessenia veryyyy pretty
Reply:I%26#039;m fond of Celina. but another beautiful name is Ahlam. I have a friend named Ahlam ... I just think it%26#039;s very ethnic and unique.
Just remember that naming a baby is permanent and that it should be something that you like and are happy with. Just go with your gut. ;)
Reply:Parisa. It will remind people of Paris, and it has special meaning for your family/heritage.
Reply:Preferably Jessenia but Parisa is also a lovely one, by the way don%26#039;t choose a very popular and hackneyed name.
Reply:Parichehr is nice Persian name which means angel face, Parirokh (same meaning) and Parizaad (angel born) .... don%26#039;t select a damn Arabic name (if you%26#039;re really Persian) ...
Reply:They are all beautiful names... i prefer jessenia!
I really like the way it sounds!!!
Good Luck %26amp; Congratulations on your new sister!!!
Reply:G-d dsoesn%26#039;t want you to know
fitness
What can be used to keep muscovy ducks from eating low growing flowers like petunias?
i%26#039;ave been feeding cracked corn to muscovy ducks, mothers and babies. they got in my flower bed and ate a white $10 petunia. what can i do or use to discourage them.
What can be used to keep muscovy ducks from eating low growing flowers like petunias?
I raise muscovies, and they Love flowers and vegies. Darned birds. But, spraying the flowers with a mix of dish soap in water will make the flowers unpalatable, and it actually kills many pest insects.
Feeding corn to muscovies isn%26#039;t a great idea. If these are Your ducks, and not wild, invest in some game bird feed. With the price of feed corn skyrocketing, it doesn%26#039;t cost much more than the corn, and it%26#039;s WAY better for them. Even scratch grain is better than corn for a muscovy.
Put tomato fence around precious flowers (those wire cones that you get at the garden center) and spray with dish soap in water.
Best of luck.
Reply:Fence in the flowers so the ducks can%26#039;t get to them. Some kind of physical barrier would work best.
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What can be used to keep muscovy ducks from eating low growing flowers like petunias?
I raise muscovies, and they Love flowers and vegies. Darned birds. But, spraying the flowers with a mix of dish soap in water will make the flowers unpalatable, and it actually kills many pest insects.
Feeding corn to muscovies isn%26#039;t a great idea. If these are Your ducks, and not wild, invest in some game bird feed. With the price of feed corn skyrocketing, it doesn%26#039;t cost much more than the corn, and it%26#039;s WAY better for them. Even scratch grain is better than corn for a muscovy.
Put tomato fence around precious flowers (those wire cones that you get at the garden center) and spray with dish soap in water.
Best of luck.
Reply:Fence in the flowers so the ducks can%26#039;t get to them. Some kind of physical barrier would work best.
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What is a proper show of condolence for a mother who lost her baby?
I work for an OB/GYN and one of my patients gave birth only a few months ago, but recently lost her baby due to complications of an illness. She and her husband are wonderful people and it shouldn%26#039;t be a thing anyone has to go through. It has especially been getting to me since I heard the news this afternoon. She%26#039;s coming back for an appointment soon, and I don%26#039;t know what to do. I just lost my mom a few months back and although I cried everytime the phone rang from a relative or friend calling or opening a sympathy card, it really did help. I was thinking of getting her just some potting flowers or something as a small gesture of my condolence, but I%26#039;m not sure if it would be proper, or if I should do anything at all. Just trying to get some ideas.
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What is a proper show of condolence for a mother who lost her baby?
The best thing you can do is be kind to her. Getting her a gift might make her think the whole office is talking about her. That would be the first thing that would come to my mind if someone from my OB office gave me a gift like that. I would think if you were close to this person it would be okay. Otherwise it%26#039;s best not to approach her about this subject as it is very sensitive. If she brings it up with you personally then you can talk with her about it. Otherwise no gifts.
Reply:Acknowledge her loss, even if u cry thats ok, its is SAD! I work as a midwife, when a baby dies I often cry too (and when I see them later down the street sometimes too) it shows u r human and that u feel for them in a real way. A littel gift or card is ok but ur thoughts and acceptance of them would mean more. Ur patients r lucky to have u!
Reply:the best thing you can do for them is to give them a child.... which you can%26#039;t really do ... if you work in a hospital.. you must be also in touch with persons who wanna go for an abortion... then am sure that you can do something for them to become parents...... i know it%26#039;s a hard job but if you are a nice person am sure that you will surely try your best in solving the problem
Reply:Flowers, a card, a hug, anything. that would really mean a lot to the family. just show that you care, that you are doing more than just doing your job, that you actually care for the patients.
Reply:I lost my son last year. I get it. You have the right idea. Also make a donation to the hospital in the babies honor. or get and in memory ornament. Make her a bracelet and put always ________%26#039;s Mom. She will know you care.
Reply:if she was a friend I would say a rose bush. But if she is a patient it may not be appropriate
Reply:We all get that overwhelming urge to try to think of something to do or say in situations like that; and there isn%26#039;t much anyone can really do or say.
I think a nice, tasteful, simple, card (maybe with a little simple prayer if you think she%26#039;s the type) or a %26quot;thinking of you%26quot; card with something like, %26quot;If there%26#039;s anything at all I can do%26quot;, may be all you can do.
I think any gesture is proper for the most part. She%26#039;ll know what you%26#039;re trying to tell her.
Reply:I can tell that you genuinely care for this woman, but the most I would do is offer her verbal condolences. It sounds like you have a professional/patient relationship with her. You have a legal and moral obligation to protect her confidentiality. It seems crazy, but with all the HIPPA laws, I%26#039;d hate for someone to misconstrue your well intentioned gift or card. Talk it over with the OB before you do anything. She may value her confidentiality at the doc%26#039;s office and not having to discuss her grief as she does with famiy and friends.
Reply:When you see her, look her in the eye and say kindly %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss.%26quot; That%26#039;s what a mother most needs to hear at such a time. I know because I suffered a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. Then I went on to have 3 healthy pregnancies. But it hurt me most when people wanted to gloss over my loss and my pain. Its kindest to acknowledge the loss directly and express your sorrow over it directly to her.
Give her a beautiful card with an offer to help out in any way necessary. You can pass it around to the other employees in the Dr.%26#039;s office and have everyone sign it. You could take up a collection of $5 per person and buy her and her husband an engraved picture frame with her child%26#039;s name on it. It will be a keepsake of her few precious memories of her child. She can place a picture she took of her baby before he/she passed away in the frame. Most mothers need to feel the child they lost is remembered.
The idea of the flowers is lovely. I%26#039;m sure that would mean a great deal to her. You can also find books about grief and recovering from the loss of a child through Amazon, you may want to buy her one.
You and your coworkers could attend the funeral and there pass around a sign up sheet for the other ladies to offer to bring her dinner every night for two weeks after the funeral in order to comfort her and allow her and her husband to grieve without worrying over cooking and cleanup at dinner time. They might not eat properly if no one sees to that so that is the most important advice, give them the gift of prepared meals. This is going to be such a heartbreakingly difficult time for this poor Mommy.
Reply:Personally, I would just let it be and not say anything. This happened to my friend last month and from the things I have learned is that the parents are so overwhelmed with condolences that they get rather fed up with them and just want to move on and come to peace with it, without everyone trying to feel for them all the time. I never said anything and just told her that if she ever needed to talk then I was there, and if she wanted to hang out I was here and it was going to be up to her if we talked about it at all. So, I always wait for her to bring it up. If she comes in and brings it up, then say something nice but I wouldn%26#039;t do anything else. I know that it hurts, and I am so sorry you are going through this, I know the pain, but we have to let these mothers be strong. The fact that we need to give, in order to feel comfortable with this, isn%26#039;t always the answer. Godbless you.
Reply:i honestly have no idea what would be the best thing for them. i don%26#039;t know that anyone would since everyone heals differently, but i do have one thought. perhaps she may need people to treat her normally, as if nothing has changed between you. while she may be trying to get her mind off of it, others are probably constantly reminding her. but i certainly don%26#039;t want to suggest something that would come off as offensive. my heart goes out to this family, and i hope that someone will be able to offer some more useful advice.
Reply:I think that the best thing you can do is ask her if she%26#039;s doing alright, if there%26#039;s anything that you could help with or anything that she needs. Offer your friendship. Give her your phone number and tell her she can call anytime if she needs someone to talk to.
If you want to buy her something maybe a necklace. There%26#039;s this great one %26quot;Mother Embrace%26quot; You can get her it with her child%26#039;s birthstone in it. http://www.limogesjewelry.com/custom.asp...
super nanny
:(
What is a proper show of condolence for a mother who lost her baby?
The best thing you can do is be kind to her. Getting her a gift might make her think the whole office is talking about her. That would be the first thing that would come to my mind if someone from my OB office gave me a gift like that. I would think if you were close to this person it would be okay. Otherwise it%26#039;s best not to approach her about this subject as it is very sensitive. If she brings it up with you personally then you can talk with her about it. Otherwise no gifts.
Reply:Acknowledge her loss, even if u cry thats ok, its is SAD! I work as a midwife, when a baby dies I often cry too (and when I see them later down the street sometimes too) it shows u r human and that u feel for them in a real way. A littel gift or card is ok but ur thoughts and acceptance of them would mean more. Ur patients r lucky to have u!
Reply:the best thing you can do for them is to give them a child.... which you can%26#039;t really do ... if you work in a hospital.. you must be also in touch with persons who wanna go for an abortion... then am sure that you can do something for them to become parents...... i know it%26#039;s a hard job but if you are a nice person am sure that you will surely try your best in solving the problem
Reply:Flowers, a card, a hug, anything. that would really mean a lot to the family. just show that you care, that you are doing more than just doing your job, that you actually care for the patients.
Reply:I lost my son last year. I get it. You have the right idea. Also make a donation to the hospital in the babies honor. or get and in memory ornament. Make her a bracelet and put always ________%26#039;s Mom. She will know you care.
Reply:if she was a friend I would say a rose bush. But if she is a patient it may not be appropriate
Reply:We all get that overwhelming urge to try to think of something to do or say in situations like that; and there isn%26#039;t much anyone can really do or say.
I think a nice, tasteful, simple, card (maybe with a little simple prayer if you think she%26#039;s the type) or a %26quot;thinking of you%26quot; card with something like, %26quot;If there%26#039;s anything at all I can do%26quot;, may be all you can do.
I think any gesture is proper for the most part. She%26#039;ll know what you%26#039;re trying to tell her.
Reply:I can tell that you genuinely care for this woman, but the most I would do is offer her verbal condolences. It sounds like you have a professional/patient relationship with her. You have a legal and moral obligation to protect her confidentiality. It seems crazy, but with all the HIPPA laws, I%26#039;d hate for someone to misconstrue your well intentioned gift or card. Talk it over with the OB before you do anything. She may value her confidentiality at the doc%26#039;s office and not having to discuss her grief as she does with famiy and friends.
Reply:When you see her, look her in the eye and say kindly %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss.%26quot; That%26#039;s what a mother most needs to hear at such a time. I know because I suffered a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. Then I went on to have 3 healthy pregnancies. But it hurt me most when people wanted to gloss over my loss and my pain. Its kindest to acknowledge the loss directly and express your sorrow over it directly to her.
Give her a beautiful card with an offer to help out in any way necessary. You can pass it around to the other employees in the Dr.%26#039;s office and have everyone sign it. You could take up a collection of $5 per person and buy her and her husband an engraved picture frame with her child%26#039;s name on it. It will be a keepsake of her few precious memories of her child. She can place a picture she took of her baby before he/she passed away in the frame. Most mothers need to feel the child they lost is remembered.
The idea of the flowers is lovely. I%26#039;m sure that would mean a great deal to her. You can also find books about grief and recovering from the loss of a child through Amazon, you may want to buy her one.
You and your coworkers could attend the funeral and there pass around a sign up sheet for the other ladies to offer to bring her dinner every night for two weeks after the funeral in order to comfort her and allow her and her husband to grieve without worrying over cooking and cleanup at dinner time. They might not eat properly if no one sees to that so that is the most important advice, give them the gift of prepared meals. This is going to be such a heartbreakingly difficult time for this poor Mommy.
Reply:Personally, I would just let it be and not say anything. This happened to my friend last month and from the things I have learned is that the parents are so overwhelmed with condolences that they get rather fed up with them and just want to move on and come to peace with it, without everyone trying to feel for them all the time. I never said anything and just told her that if she ever needed to talk then I was there, and if she wanted to hang out I was here and it was going to be up to her if we talked about it at all. So, I always wait for her to bring it up. If she comes in and brings it up, then say something nice but I wouldn%26#039;t do anything else. I know that it hurts, and I am so sorry you are going through this, I know the pain, but we have to let these mothers be strong. The fact that we need to give, in order to feel comfortable with this, isn%26#039;t always the answer. Godbless you.
Reply:i honestly have no idea what would be the best thing for them. i don%26#039;t know that anyone would since everyone heals differently, but i do have one thought. perhaps she may need people to treat her normally, as if nothing has changed between you. while she may be trying to get her mind off of it, others are probably constantly reminding her. but i certainly don%26#039;t want to suggest something that would come off as offensive. my heart goes out to this family, and i hope that someone will be able to offer some more useful advice.
Reply:I think that the best thing you can do is ask her if she%26#039;s doing alright, if there%26#039;s anything that you could help with or anything that she needs. Offer your friendship. Give her your phone number and tell her she can call anytime if she needs someone to talk to.
If you want to buy her something maybe a necklace. There%26#039;s this great one %26quot;Mother Embrace%26quot; You can get her it with her child%26#039;s birthstone in it. http://www.limogesjewelry.com/custom.asp...
super nanny
I've been married fr 5 yrs. now. But recently after the baby arrived,we've been fighting a lot.?
From the time i got pregnant, i%26#039;ve been fighting a lot with my husband. His no-care attitude with the baby, makes me mad. He says i get mad too fast f%26#039;r the slightest reason. I dont know, but it%26#039;s getting into me. I feel like leaving him but i also love him too much. He%26#039;s a fine man, brings me flowers and cards and takes me out most of the time. But we fight and we fight bad. I hit him and he hits me back. When he hits me, it hurts bad and i get mad like a devil. What%26#039;s goin on here? does anyone know?
I%26#039;ve been married fr 5 yrs. now. But recently after the baby arrived,we%26#039;ve been fighting a lot.?
I know how you feel, I have a son hes 10 months old and we fought alot after he was born, and its because i thought that he didnt care too, See Maybe you should just sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel, thats what i did, and we havent had ne problems for awhile {Knock on wood} But you should just talk to him, and i know how you feel when the man you love hits you, it makes you feel bad and like your no good, and everything else I have been there
Reply:You two must see a marriage counselor NOW.
Reply:you both have to stop....
he loves you ... you love him ... and both of you love your baby...
you both are so lucky to have each other and your baby... if he is a bit care less abut the baby it does not mean that he does not love his baby.
give him time to get use to this big change... and remember that:
A good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
Good Luck
Reply:Post partom depression could be a contributing factor. Men do get jealous and it is a big change to have a new baby and hard for some to adjust. The hitting is not a good thing at all. That is crossing boundaries. What will that teach your child. I think that you should both go to see a marriage counseler together.
Best of luck to the three of you!!!
Reply:This is something that should NEVER go on in any relationship. ESPECIALLY when there is a child in the home!! You MUST seek a marriage councilor immediately!! Make the call, as soon as possible or get away from each other. In the meantime, you need to control yourself and stop hitting him. Granted, a man should never hit a woman, but you shouldn%26#039;t be hitting, either. Please seek professional help.
Reply:The first part of your question sounds like you had hormone imbalance. This can occur during pregnancy and years after. It can cause erradic behavior on your part.
The second part of your question sounds like you both are out of control. Hitting is NEVER an option for you or him. If it has gone this far I suggest you divorce. Even with hormone treatment the mental scars from the physical abuse you have inflicted upon each other will never fully heal. Once you become parents the priority is the child. Your baby does not need to be in this environment. Seek medical help for the hormone imbalance and psychiatric counseling for the abuse. If you don%26#039;t learn a healthy way to express yourself it will be only a matter of months before you both start hitting the baby.
Reply:some times itslike that when you get a new baby ,,wait it out it will get better,show more affection to each other until then
Reply:there%26#039;s nothing like a new baby to create turmoil in a relationship. you%26#039;re hormonal, he%26#039;s losing ground as the most important priority, the lack of sleep, added responsibility - try to talk to a counselor, please do not hit each other! If you can get through the first year or so, you will find it easier. good luck!
Reply:Maybe you are getting the baby blues to soon, get counseling before you take it to far and end up regreating what you might do or make him do (if you really love him)
Reply:yea, the hitting has got to stop, like now, if both of you can hit one another and you have a new baby there. you need to get your things or let him get his and get out. if you can hit now and have a temper, one of you could very easly take it to the next level. get out or him and try if you want to with council,but not living in the same house and having a baby there hitting one or the other.
Reply:Most men get jealous of the baby when you first get pregnant then when its born, but if he hits you, that%26#039;s not common. He needs some counseling or its gonna get worse, not better. Talk about this problem with him NOW. Don%26#039;t wait. Kids notice and will pick up everything even as infants.
Reply:I think from reading the other answers, which are great, you pretty much have your answer!How old are you?When you bring a child into this world, that becomes the priority but it is a matter of adjustment. It takes time for you, your body to adjust to the hormone change, body image is different, and now also sleepless nights, responsibilities. Get self-control or learn how to from a good therapist in your area, NOW!PRONTO! You guys need somebody who can help you through this, and the answer is not to hit or fight. It is okay to argue, but you also have to after the argument, and cleared the air by talking, COMMUNICATION, you need time for each other to make up! It%26#039;s the hardest time that first year when a baby is born, and things will always go up and down, you need to know how to ride the wave!Good luck, prayers to you, your husband and your new baby! Congratulations!:)
Reply:I believe it happens to most new parents, the quarreling part I meant. Whether good or bad reason, there must have been something big that caused him to hit you.
I agree what others have said, you guys got to go counseling. You guys might also want to try talking about you guys issue as if it was a third party%26#039;s issue. Like %26quot;I have this friend who%26#039;s married for 5 year, now expecting... %26quot;. It works most of the time because most of us are more objective about others issues and doesn%26#039;t feel confronted upon that easily.
In my opinion, try the third party approach first, and let that lead to the counseling bit.
Reply:He hits you and you want to know if you should leave??? Next time he hits you call 911. Get an attorney. Once a wife beater, always a wife beater.
Reply:Listen! Times do get a little rough when you have a new addition to the family but that is no excuse for domestic violence. If he hits you, it will only be time before he will hit your child. And that is unexcuseable! You need to get out while you can before you end up afraid for your life and have no way to escape. Your life and that of your child is way too important to put it in danger by being with an abusive man!
skin disease
I%26#039;ve been married fr 5 yrs. now. But recently after the baby arrived,we%26#039;ve been fighting a lot.?
I know how you feel, I have a son hes 10 months old and we fought alot after he was born, and its because i thought that he didnt care too, See Maybe you should just sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel, thats what i did, and we havent had ne problems for awhile {Knock on wood} But you should just talk to him, and i know how you feel when the man you love hits you, it makes you feel bad and like your no good, and everything else I have been there
Reply:You two must see a marriage counselor NOW.
Reply:you both have to stop....
he loves you ... you love him ... and both of you love your baby...
you both are so lucky to have each other and your baby... if he is a bit care less abut the baby it does not mean that he does not love his baby.
give him time to get use to this big change... and remember that:
A good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
Good Luck
Reply:Post partom depression could be a contributing factor. Men do get jealous and it is a big change to have a new baby and hard for some to adjust. The hitting is not a good thing at all. That is crossing boundaries. What will that teach your child. I think that you should both go to see a marriage counseler together.
Best of luck to the three of you!!!
Reply:This is something that should NEVER go on in any relationship. ESPECIALLY when there is a child in the home!! You MUST seek a marriage councilor immediately!! Make the call, as soon as possible or get away from each other. In the meantime, you need to control yourself and stop hitting him. Granted, a man should never hit a woman, but you shouldn%26#039;t be hitting, either. Please seek professional help.
Reply:The first part of your question sounds like you had hormone imbalance. This can occur during pregnancy and years after. It can cause erradic behavior on your part.
The second part of your question sounds like you both are out of control. Hitting is NEVER an option for you or him. If it has gone this far I suggest you divorce. Even with hormone treatment the mental scars from the physical abuse you have inflicted upon each other will never fully heal. Once you become parents the priority is the child. Your baby does not need to be in this environment. Seek medical help for the hormone imbalance and psychiatric counseling for the abuse. If you don%26#039;t learn a healthy way to express yourself it will be only a matter of months before you both start hitting the baby.
Reply:some times itslike that when you get a new baby ,,wait it out it will get better,show more affection to each other until then
Reply:there%26#039;s nothing like a new baby to create turmoil in a relationship. you%26#039;re hormonal, he%26#039;s losing ground as the most important priority, the lack of sleep, added responsibility - try to talk to a counselor, please do not hit each other! If you can get through the first year or so, you will find it easier. good luck!
Reply:Maybe you are getting the baby blues to soon, get counseling before you take it to far and end up regreating what you might do or make him do (if you really love him)
Reply:yea, the hitting has got to stop, like now, if both of you can hit one another and you have a new baby there. you need to get your things or let him get his and get out. if you can hit now and have a temper, one of you could very easly take it to the next level. get out or him and try if you want to with council,but not living in the same house and having a baby there hitting one or the other.
Reply:Most men get jealous of the baby when you first get pregnant then when its born, but if he hits you, that%26#039;s not common. He needs some counseling or its gonna get worse, not better. Talk about this problem with him NOW. Don%26#039;t wait. Kids notice and will pick up everything even as infants.
Reply:I think from reading the other answers, which are great, you pretty much have your answer!How old are you?When you bring a child into this world, that becomes the priority but it is a matter of adjustment. It takes time for you, your body to adjust to the hormone change, body image is different, and now also sleepless nights, responsibilities. Get self-control or learn how to from a good therapist in your area, NOW!PRONTO! You guys need somebody who can help you through this, and the answer is not to hit or fight. It is okay to argue, but you also have to after the argument, and cleared the air by talking, COMMUNICATION, you need time for each other to make up! It%26#039;s the hardest time that first year when a baby is born, and things will always go up and down, you need to know how to ride the wave!Good luck, prayers to you, your husband and your new baby! Congratulations!:)
Reply:I believe it happens to most new parents, the quarreling part I meant. Whether good or bad reason, there must have been something big that caused him to hit you.
I agree what others have said, you guys got to go counseling. You guys might also want to try talking about you guys issue as if it was a third party%26#039;s issue. Like %26quot;I have this friend who%26#039;s married for 5 year, now expecting... %26quot;. It works most of the time because most of us are more objective about others issues and doesn%26#039;t feel confronted upon that easily.
In my opinion, try the third party approach first, and let that lead to the counseling bit.
Reply:He hits you and you want to know if you should leave??? Next time he hits you call 911. Get an attorney. Once a wife beater, always a wife beater.
Reply:Listen! Times do get a little rough when you have a new addition to the family but that is no excuse for domestic violence. If he hits you, it will only be time before he will hit your child. And that is unexcuseable! You need to get out while you can before you end up afraid for your life and have no way to escape. Your life and that of your child is way too important to put it in danger by being with an abusive man!
skin disease
Is there any chance that I can stop my cat from killing baby bunnies?
My cat killed two today. I got one from her, but it didn%26#039;t last long after I brought it in the house. She had broke her neck. I spanked her for it. I didn%26#039;t know what else to do. Then, maybe two hours later, there was another one on the porch. Already dead and smaller, but I didn%26#039;t see it. Fortunately, my mother found it. We also have a mama finch that has nested in a hanging basket of flowers and laid eggs. My cat sits out there and watches it and I%26#039;m afraid that when they hatch and finally try to fly, she is going to try to kill them. My cat, Baby, we found her and took her in. She was a ferrel cat and it took me months to get her to let me even touch her without being attacked , so she has bonded closely with me. I can%26#039;t keep her if this is going to continue, though and I know it%26#039;s her nature, so I%26#039;m not optimistic, but thought I%26#039;d ask anyway. I%26#039;m not heartless. That%26#039;s not the only reason why I would give her away. This is just the last straw. Any advice?
Is there any chance that I can stop my cat from killing baby bunnies?
you can put a couple of bells around her neck (more than one because she will learn how to move so that ne doesnt ring)... but thats not going to stop her killing baby animals because the babies wont be able to get away in time.
spanking her wont make any difference - hunting is what cats do.
giving her away wont help either - she will just kill animals at someone elses house.
the only way you can stop it is to keep her inside - turn her into an inside cat. itll take a few weeks of training.
.
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Reply:There is nothing you can do but keep her inside and if you do let her out put her on a leash.
Personally there is nothing an animal could do beside%26#039;s mauling someone that would make me get rid of them.
Reply:This is one of the things you have to put up with by having a cat. Because of there unessecary killing they often wipeout large tracts of wildlife. so decide which you prefer wildlife or your cat.
Reply:keep her inside
Reply:Yes..keep the cat inside. He/She is damaging native wildlife. Cats are NOT native wildlife and this is what happens when people let them wander about outdoors and introduce a non-native species.
Reply:Make her an indoor only cat and this will stop her from killing baby bunnies and birds. But if anything gets in your house that is prey to a cat she will kill it also. Just so you are aware her bringing these dead bunnies to you is her way of giving you a gift and thanking you for taking care of her. My cats used to bring me dead mice (that they caught in the house). Hunting is what she had to do to survive and she isn%26#039;t going to stop just because she is being cared for now. She is going to continue to hunt to supplement her meals. So don%26#039;t spank her for doing what her instinct is telling her to do.
Reply:Spanking her will only confuse her; she%26#039;s acting on instinct. Keep her inside so she can%26#039;t do that stuff.
Reply:As it is normal for a cat to be a predator i can only suggest you make a large cat cage for her.with access to the house perhaps
Reply:don%26#039;t give your cat food
Reply:How do you spank a cat? They are bony and fragile, you are going to hurt her!!!! By hunting, she is going by instinct. Are you going by instinct by slapping her around? She is obviously not going to be domesticated enough for you, so give her up to a better life instead of abusing her.
Reply:Try to keep her inside and if she goes out, stay with her
Reply:cats have an instinct to kill birds and things anyway but her being a feral cat makes those instincts a lot worse. Sorry but i think you should get rid of her. I mean have a cat,,, or save all the rabbits and birds around you.
Reply:cats r ment 2 kill bunnies n birds...its no good spanking her..thats y shes so aggresive towards u..my cat hunts pigeons.
Reply:it%26#039;s very difficult to turn an outside cat
into an inside cat
my cat brings me mice, katydids, and earthworms
which i only discover
barefooted in the middlle of the night
(ewww!)
i%26#039;m in denver
and there is a surge of boubonic plauge with squirrels
pay attention
see a vet
and keep your fingers crossed
Reply:Keep her as an indoor cat.
Reply:You have a beautiful huntress cat! Bringing you %26#039;goodies%26#039; is her way of showing she cares for you. She%26#039;s saying thanks for opening your heart to her and giving her a home. It%26#039;s her way to say %26#039;I Love You%26#039;.
She learnt to hunt so well so as to survive... that%26#039;s what feral cats that haven%26#039;t had access to caring humans and who grow up %26#039;wild%26#039; have to do.
Our animal companions often come to us to not only keep us company but also to teach us things that we can benefit from learning more about. Feral cats must master self reliance and adapting to their environment and the situation they find themselves in.
Also, connect with her spirit. Cats are extremely telepathic. I often had telepathic and verbal chats with my cat and she knew when I got upset about anything she did.
You are the only one who can decide what to do in this situation. She%26#039;s unlikely to change her hunting habits although she can be helped to modify and lessen her %26#039;sprees%26#039; as outlined above and with some of the excellent advice from the other responders.
There is nothing %26#039;unnatural%26#039; about what your cat is doing. Out in nature, big cats and other animals hunt their food every day and that%26#039;s what she%26#039;s learnt to do since she wasn%26#039;t born into a home that raised her as a %26#039;pet%26#039;. There is nothing %26#039;wrong%26#039; with her and I%26#039;m sure your vet will tell you that the more variety you give her in terms of food, such as liver etc, to add to her dried food diet, the less she may, over time, %26#039;hunt%26#039;.
Search your heart, communicate with her and try to find a way to love and accept and continue to have her as your companion. Find loving and creative ways to protect other small animals around, such as those young hatchlings that will shortly bless you with their presence, whilst allowing her some freedom and full expression of who she is. Every one of us wants to be fully accepted, honoured and loved for who we are, without conditions. Your cat does too.
There%26#039;s always a way and I%26#039;m knowing that you%26#039;ll create the best solution for yourself, your beautiful huntress cat soul mate companion, your home and your shared lifestyle.
Angela.
http://www.spiritualityselfhelp.com
Reply:You made the effort to make friends with her, this self-sufficient huntress, and now, she%26#039;s adopted you as one of her own. As a lioness brings her catch back to her pride, your friend is bringing food to you.
I think you need to decide whether Baby is more important, or some sillly wild bird. Is it really %26quot;the last straw?%26quot; Is it really that important when a rabbit is taken by your cat instead of some other predator?
Maybe it offends your refined sensibilities for her to be catching prey, but, say I lived in a 3rd-world country, and I had somehow managed to befriend a feral cat. I would be jumping for joy if my cat brought me rabbits.
nanny
Is there any chance that I can stop my cat from killing baby bunnies?
you can put a couple of bells around her neck (more than one because she will learn how to move so that ne doesnt ring)... but thats not going to stop her killing baby animals because the babies wont be able to get away in time.
spanking her wont make any difference - hunting is what cats do.
giving her away wont help either - she will just kill animals at someone elses house.
the only way you can stop it is to keep her inside - turn her into an inside cat. itll take a few weeks of training.
.
.
Reply:There is nothing you can do but keep her inside and if you do let her out put her on a leash.
Personally there is nothing an animal could do beside%26#039;s mauling someone that would make me get rid of them.
Reply:This is one of the things you have to put up with by having a cat. Because of there unessecary killing they often wipeout large tracts of wildlife. so decide which you prefer wildlife or your cat.
Reply:keep her inside
Reply:Yes..keep the cat inside. He/She is damaging native wildlife. Cats are NOT native wildlife and this is what happens when people let them wander about outdoors and introduce a non-native species.
Reply:Make her an indoor only cat and this will stop her from killing baby bunnies and birds. But if anything gets in your house that is prey to a cat she will kill it also. Just so you are aware her bringing these dead bunnies to you is her way of giving you a gift and thanking you for taking care of her. My cats used to bring me dead mice (that they caught in the house). Hunting is what she had to do to survive and she isn%26#039;t going to stop just because she is being cared for now. She is going to continue to hunt to supplement her meals. So don%26#039;t spank her for doing what her instinct is telling her to do.
Reply:Spanking her will only confuse her; she%26#039;s acting on instinct. Keep her inside so she can%26#039;t do that stuff.
Reply:As it is normal for a cat to be a predator i can only suggest you make a large cat cage for her.with access to the house perhaps
Reply:don%26#039;t give your cat food
Reply:How do you spank a cat? They are bony and fragile, you are going to hurt her!!!! By hunting, she is going by instinct. Are you going by instinct by slapping her around? She is obviously not going to be domesticated enough for you, so give her up to a better life instead of abusing her.
Reply:Try to keep her inside and if she goes out, stay with her
Reply:cats have an instinct to kill birds and things anyway but her being a feral cat makes those instincts a lot worse. Sorry but i think you should get rid of her. I mean have a cat,,, or save all the rabbits and birds around you.
Reply:cats r ment 2 kill bunnies n birds...its no good spanking her..thats y shes so aggresive towards u..my cat hunts pigeons.
Reply:it%26#039;s very difficult to turn an outside cat
into an inside cat
my cat brings me mice, katydids, and earthworms
which i only discover
barefooted in the middlle of the night
(ewww!)
i%26#039;m in denver
and there is a surge of boubonic plauge with squirrels
pay attention
see a vet
and keep your fingers crossed
Reply:Keep her as an indoor cat.
Reply:You have a beautiful huntress cat! Bringing you %26#039;goodies%26#039; is her way of showing she cares for you. She%26#039;s saying thanks for opening your heart to her and giving her a home. It%26#039;s her way to say %26#039;I Love You%26#039;.
She learnt to hunt so well so as to survive... that%26#039;s what feral cats that haven%26#039;t had access to caring humans and who grow up %26#039;wild%26#039; have to do.
Our animal companions often come to us to not only keep us company but also to teach us things that we can benefit from learning more about. Feral cats must master self reliance and adapting to their environment and the situation they find themselves in.
Also, connect with her spirit. Cats are extremely telepathic. I often had telepathic and verbal chats with my cat and she knew when I got upset about anything she did.
You are the only one who can decide what to do in this situation. She%26#039;s unlikely to change her hunting habits although she can be helped to modify and lessen her %26#039;sprees%26#039; as outlined above and with some of the excellent advice from the other responders.
There is nothing %26#039;unnatural%26#039; about what your cat is doing. Out in nature, big cats and other animals hunt their food every day and that%26#039;s what she%26#039;s learnt to do since she wasn%26#039;t born into a home that raised her as a %26#039;pet%26#039;. There is nothing %26#039;wrong%26#039; with her and I%26#039;m sure your vet will tell you that the more variety you give her in terms of food, such as liver etc, to add to her dried food diet, the less she may, over time, %26#039;hunt%26#039;.
Search your heart, communicate with her and try to find a way to love and accept and continue to have her as your companion. Find loving and creative ways to protect other small animals around, such as those young hatchlings that will shortly bless you with their presence, whilst allowing her some freedom and full expression of who she is. Every one of us wants to be fully accepted, honoured and loved for who we are, without conditions. Your cat does too.
There%26#039;s always a way and I%26#039;m knowing that you%26#039;ll create the best solution for yourself, your beautiful huntress cat soul mate companion, your home and your shared lifestyle.
Angela.
http://www.spiritualityselfhelp.com
Reply:You made the effort to make friends with her, this self-sufficient huntress, and now, she%26#039;s adopted you as one of her own. As a lioness brings her catch back to her pride, your friend is bringing food to you.
I think you need to decide whether Baby is more important, or some sillly wild bird. Is it really %26quot;the last straw?%26quot; Is it really that important when a rabbit is taken by your cat instead of some other predator?
Maybe it offends your refined sensibilities for her to be catching prey, but, say I lived in a 3rd-world country, and I had somehow managed to befriend a feral cat. I would be jumping for joy if my cat brought me rabbits.
nanny
My daughter completed 2 years in feb, she's a very happy baby and also a very coperative one but my concern is
she started walking when she was 18 months old i sometimes wonder is that the reason she is a little slow in her motor activities like she doesn%26#039;t lrun around too much, she can%26#039;t clmib stairs without support whereas when i take her to that park there are kids even younger who love running around they can climb stiars on their own etc, whereas she%26#039;s more happy feeding the birds playing with flowers or sitting on the swing, she is very intelligent she loves reading and can read a book on her own, she%26#039;s very talkative and she keeps running around in the house, she loves migling with new kids and she does super yoga, but i get concerned when i look at other kids she%26#039;s petite that may be because both my husband and myself have average height, i took her to the doctor and she says its fine because her brain works way faster than she being physiaclly too active. she%26#039;s an extremely happy baby , never bothers me, she very civilised and i really have no complains at all. should i be worried.
My daughter completed 2 years in feb, she%26#039;s a very happy baby and also a very coperative one but my concern is
This is way to early to be concerned. Kids develope at different stages. So her motor skills is not as advanced, no biggie. After 2, if she still doesn%26#039;t walk at ease (may still wobble at times), then maybe. THey don%26#039;t start walking like adults until about 3.
Reply:there is no need to worry hun, some kids just dont like to run around and climb things. My little one prefers to walk and take her time yet my friends baby is never still (they are both 15months).
Reply:I%26#039;m sure if there were any big worries your doctor would have mentioned something to you. I wouldn%26#039;t worry about it too much but if you are concerned about it ask your doctor on you next visit.
Reply:Her being petite isnt a concern if you and your husband are average height. She might need occupational therapy. Some pediatricians are really not concern over some things or dont have the knowledge. My son had mild autism and his ped. always said he was a late bloomer and he wasnt. Right now i get him evaluated by a developmental pediatrician and i think you should do the same if your daughter has difficulty in the motor skills areas. I see she is very bright and talks, so she might only need occupational or physical therapy. There are some schools that start talking kids at 2 , and this helps the child a lot. Just look for an early childhood center . They even evaluate the kids sometimes. Good luck!
Occupational therapy - a treatment that focuses on helping people achieve independence in all areas of their lives - can provide children with various needs with positive, fun activities to improve their cognitive, physical, and motor skills and enhance their self-esteem and sense of accomplishment.
Some people may think that occupational therapy is only for adults; children, after all, do not have occupations. But a child%26#039;s main job is playing and learning, and an occupational therapist can evaluate a child%26#039;s skills for play activities, school performance, and activities of daily living and compare them to what is developmentally appropriate for an age group.
Reply:It wouldn%26#039;t hurt to see a pediatric neurologist. My daughter was almost exactly like that, and she turned out to have a pervasive developmental disorder; if that%26#039;s the case, the sooner you discover, the sooner you take action, the better.
No tears, now; these aren%26#039;t fatal at all.
Reply:no my sister was the same way, she taught herself to walk, talk, read, go to the bathroom all by herself.
Reply:no. something about us mothers, we worry when we have nothing to worry about.
Reply:Your child sound ok, but i bet some more professional opinion is required to make a precise diagnosis. I suggest you go check up on a child psychologist and/or a physical therapist. That will clear you doubts away... And if anything is discovered, the sooner you detect it, the better the outcome.
Reply:All kids are different so it really is hard to judge. To me it seems a little off that 6 months after walking she still doesn%26#039;t climb stairs. Honestly your best course of action is to listen to the little voice inside you, if you think something is wrong fight until someone listens. If you think she is developing at the right pace for her, then let her be.
Reply:Your daughter is very intellegent and normal she just hasnt been running around much or climbing much because she just started walking. Don%26#039;t be worried,this is very normal and your daughter seems to be very smart,friendly,and cooperative.If anything you should be proud and happy with your little angel.
Reply:your daughter sounds just like my son. he started walking at 16 months, and up until he was 3 1/2 , i made him wear his bike helmet when he was playing outside. he was very clumsy, but there was nothing physically wrong with him. he is now 6, and keeps up just fine with the rest of the kids his age. all kids develop at different stages, and with different desires. sounds like your daughter enjoys absorbing her surroundings more than running around. just keep encouraging her to work on her coordination. it will all come in time.
Shoes
My daughter completed 2 years in feb, she%26#039;s a very happy baby and also a very coperative one but my concern is
This is way to early to be concerned. Kids develope at different stages. So her motor skills is not as advanced, no biggie. After 2, if she still doesn%26#039;t walk at ease (may still wobble at times), then maybe. THey don%26#039;t start walking like adults until about 3.
Reply:there is no need to worry hun, some kids just dont like to run around and climb things. My little one prefers to walk and take her time yet my friends baby is never still (they are both 15months).
Reply:I%26#039;m sure if there were any big worries your doctor would have mentioned something to you. I wouldn%26#039;t worry about it too much but if you are concerned about it ask your doctor on you next visit.
Reply:Her being petite isnt a concern if you and your husband are average height. She might need occupational therapy. Some pediatricians are really not concern over some things or dont have the knowledge. My son had mild autism and his ped. always said he was a late bloomer and he wasnt. Right now i get him evaluated by a developmental pediatrician and i think you should do the same if your daughter has difficulty in the motor skills areas. I see she is very bright and talks, so she might only need occupational or physical therapy. There are some schools that start talking kids at 2 , and this helps the child a lot. Just look for an early childhood center . They even evaluate the kids sometimes. Good luck!
Occupational therapy - a treatment that focuses on helping people achieve independence in all areas of their lives - can provide children with various needs with positive, fun activities to improve their cognitive, physical, and motor skills and enhance their self-esteem and sense of accomplishment.
Some people may think that occupational therapy is only for adults; children, after all, do not have occupations. But a child%26#039;s main job is playing and learning, and an occupational therapist can evaluate a child%26#039;s skills for play activities, school performance, and activities of daily living and compare them to what is developmentally appropriate for an age group.
Reply:It wouldn%26#039;t hurt to see a pediatric neurologist. My daughter was almost exactly like that, and she turned out to have a pervasive developmental disorder; if that%26#039;s the case, the sooner you discover, the sooner you take action, the better.
No tears, now; these aren%26#039;t fatal at all.
Reply:no my sister was the same way, she taught herself to walk, talk, read, go to the bathroom all by herself.
Reply:no. something about us mothers, we worry when we have nothing to worry about.
Reply:Your child sound ok, but i bet some more professional opinion is required to make a precise diagnosis. I suggest you go check up on a child psychologist and/or a physical therapist. That will clear you doubts away... And if anything is discovered, the sooner you detect it, the better the outcome.
Reply:All kids are different so it really is hard to judge. To me it seems a little off that 6 months after walking she still doesn%26#039;t climb stairs. Honestly your best course of action is to listen to the little voice inside you, if you think something is wrong fight until someone listens. If you think she is developing at the right pace for her, then let her be.
Reply:Your daughter is very intellegent and normal she just hasnt been running around much or climbing much because she just started walking. Don%26#039;t be worried,this is very normal and your daughter seems to be very smart,friendly,and cooperative.If anything you should be proud and happy with your little angel.
Reply:your daughter sounds just like my son. he started walking at 16 months, and up until he was 3 1/2 , i made him wear his bike helmet when he was playing outside. he was very clumsy, but there was nothing physically wrong with him. he is now 6, and keeps up just fine with the rest of the kids his age. all kids develop at different stages, and with different desires. sounds like your daughter enjoys absorbing her surroundings more than running around. just keep encouraging her to work on her coordination. it will all come in time.
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What is the proper response for someone who has lost a baby?
A co-worker was recently admitted to the hospital for illness and she ended up losing her unborn baby. I want to do something but I%26#039;m not sure what%26#039;s appropriate. We aren%26#039;t terribly close but we have always been friendly. Are flowers appropriate? What words do you use to convey you%26#039;re happy they are healthy but sorry for the loss?
What is the proper response for someone who has lost a baby?
As a parent of a baby born prematurely and who died only an hour later....
flowers are appropriate, but the tiny card w/ the person%26#039;s signature and %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry%26quot; counted more for me...
cards are great, but skip the sappy ones... just a blank one w/ something simple. %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss and am praying for you and your family%26quot;
as a few others have mentioned... don%26#039;t say any of the stupid %26quot;baby is in a better place, everything happens for a reason, you can still have more kids%26quot;... especially don%26#039;t ask %26quot;can you still have more kids%26quot;... they%26#039;re not replacable... the fact that I was able to have a daughter 2 years later does not do anyting to change or help the fact that I lost the first one!
Don%26#039;t mention anything about her health good or bad... just wish her all the best and that you care. She could care less about her health right now... I know I didn%26#039;t!
More importantly, don%26#039;t forget! Mother%26#039;s day is coming up later in the spring... send her an email, or just drop another blank card w/ a little personal note in it %26quot;as I was shopping for Mother%26#039;s Day, I was thinking of you. I hope you have a peaceful day.%26quot; or somethign like that.
Reply:Maybe a card and write how sorry you are for her loss. Short and sweet is nice.
Reply:Treat it like the loss of a child, none of that, it was meant to be crap and leave out %26quot;in a better place%26quot; right now she%26#039;s not thinking about that. Flowers are appropriate, stay simple, but not like a funeral bouquet either.
Ive sent a few of these unfortunately, and will usually do something simple in whites,all the same flower like orchids or callas and say on the card, We%26#039;re so sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you. Let us know if theres anything we can do, or just to chat. Sincerely --- If you%26#039;re not friendly to chat - you can leave that out.
Reply:flowers, small basket. card saying something that you feel is right. don%26#039;t say anything about them being healthy, just mention that you are thinking of her/her family.
a good hug when she comes back, or if you visit her.
Reply:Having had 3 early micarriages and suffering the death of my newborn son, in my experience, the best thing you can say is %26quot;if you ever need to talk, I will listen%26quot;. And, be ready for her to need to talk even if it is months later. If you feel it really necessary to mention her recovery, just say you are glad she is doing better, and let it go. I think she is probably blaming herself for the loss, and reminding her that her health came at the expense of her unborn child is a hard thing to handle. Flowerd are nice, or a live plant is a nice gesture, and completely appropriate. It will help her feel like someone acknowledged her loss and grief. You are a kind person to be thinking of these things, the world needs more like you!
Reply:just be there comfort. tell them if they wanna talk about it your always here for her.
Reply:I%26#039;d just tell them that you are sorry for their loss. Earth Mama Angel Baby has a great little gift basket for someone who has lost a baby or miscarried. www.earthmamaangelbaby.com
Don%26#039;t say anything like %26quot;everything happens for a reason%26quot; or %26quot;maybe it was for the best%26quot; etc. Unless you want them to be very upset with you.
Reply:A miscarriage needs the same grief process as any death. Try to be understanding.
A touch, a hug, a very brief comment or a handwritten card will do wonders. Don%26#039;t hug unless you are close enough with her. Flowers are nice but they too die.
When she comes back to work she will have phases when she will be grieving. Try to be understanding and if appropriate, try to ease her workload for a while. If you are in a position at work where you have contact with the public, be aware that a woman who loses a child may react emotionally to the sound or sight of a small child or baby. See what you (or the office) can do to lessen that exposure for a while.
Reply:and never say, %26quot;well, you can always try again%26quot; I do agree with the others that have already giving answers, be supportive, and let them unload their pain on you
Reply:If you were my coworker I would think flowers would be appropriate or a card...but that is going beyond the call of duty.
%26quot;I am sorry for your loss. I know that I can%26#039;t understand what you are going through...but if you need anything, just let me know%26quot;
Then don%26#039;t dwell unless she wants to talk about it.
And you are a very nice co-worker to even be concerned.
Reply:some flowers and a nice card i think, its difficult to not upset the person
Reply:A bouquet of flowers would be nice. You don%26#039;t really have to say much. They know. Just a nice %26quot;You are in my thoughts and prayers%26quot; or %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss%26quot; is all that really needs to be said.
Reply:Hi, very tough situation but whatever you do: DON%26#039;T avoid her, keep it very simple as some others said. I lost a baby 7 years ago, my company sent me a huge %26amp; beautiful bouquet of flowers, everytime I was looking at it, I was bursting to tears and couldn%26#039;t wait to put it in the bin.
Personnaly, I prefered a simple card and a nice %26amp; short talk, tell her how sorry you are to hear that... but don%26#039;t go on unless she%26#039;s willing to talk.
Also some people were just avoiding me, I thought at the time they didn%26#039;t care about what happen to me. You obviously care very much otherwise you wouldn%26#039;t ask this question.
Reply:I%26#039;d say...
%26quot;Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time of great loss.
With deepest sympathy,
Your name%26quot;
loan
What is the proper response for someone who has lost a baby?
As a parent of a baby born prematurely and who died only an hour later....
flowers are appropriate, but the tiny card w/ the person%26#039;s signature and %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry%26quot; counted more for me...
cards are great, but skip the sappy ones... just a blank one w/ something simple. %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss and am praying for you and your family%26quot;
as a few others have mentioned... don%26#039;t say any of the stupid %26quot;baby is in a better place, everything happens for a reason, you can still have more kids%26quot;... especially don%26#039;t ask %26quot;can you still have more kids%26quot;... they%26#039;re not replacable... the fact that I was able to have a daughter 2 years later does not do anyting to change or help the fact that I lost the first one!
Don%26#039;t mention anything about her health good or bad... just wish her all the best and that you care. She could care less about her health right now... I know I didn%26#039;t!
More importantly, don%26#039;t forget! Mother%26#039;s day is coming up later in the spring... send her an email, or just drop another blank card w/ a little personal note in it %26quot;as I was shopping for Mother%26#039;s Day, I was thinking of you. I hope you have a peaceful day.%26quot; or somethign like that.
Reply:Maybe a card and write how sorry you are for her loss. Short and sweet is nice.
Reply:Treat it like the loss of a child, none of that, it was meant to be crap and leave out %26quot;in a better place%26quot; right now she%26#039;s not thinking about that. Flowers are appropriate, stay simple, but not like a funeral bouquet either.
Ive sent a few of these unfortunately, and will usually do something simple in whites,all the same flower like orchids or callas and say on the card, We%26#039;re so sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you. Let us know if theres anything we can do, or just to chat. Sincerely --- If you%26#039;re not friendly to chat - you can leave that out.
Reply:flowers, small basket. card saying something that you feel is right. don%26#039;t say anything about them being healthy, just mention that you are thinking of her/her family.
a good hug when she comes back, or if you visit her.
Reply:Having had 3 early micarriages and suffering the death of my newborn son, in my experience, the best thing you can say is %26quot;if you ever need to talk, I will listen%26quot;. And, be ready for her to need to talk even if it is months later. If you feel it really necessary to mention her recovery, just say you are glad she is doing better, and let it go. I think she is probably blaming herself for the loss, and reminding her that her health came at the expense of her unborn child is a hard thing to handle. Flowerd are nice, or a live plant is a nice gesture, and completely appropriate. It will help her feel like someone acknowledged her loss and grief. You are a kind person to be thinking of these things, the world needs more like you!
Reply:just be there comfort. tell them if they wanna talk about it your always here for her.
Reply:I%26#039;d just tell them that you are sorry for their loss. Earth Mama Angel Baby has a great little gift basket for someone who has lost a baby or miscarried. www.earthmamaangelbaby.com
Don%26#039;t say anything like %26quot;everything happens for a reason%26quot; or %26quot;maybe it was for the best%26quot; etc. Unless you want them to be very upset with you.
Reply:A miscarriage needs the same grief process as any death. Try to be understanding.
A touch, a hug, a very brief comment or a handwritten card will do wonders. Don%26#039;t hug unless you are close enough with her. Flowers are nice but they too die.
When she comes back to work she will have phases when she will be grieving. Try to be understanding and if appropriate, try to ease her workload for a while. If you are in a position at work where you have contact with the public, be aware that a woman who loses a child may react emotionally to the sound or sight of a small child or baby. See what you (or the office) can do to lessen that exposure for a while.
Reply:and never say, %26quot;well, you can always try again%26quot; I do agree with the others that have already giving answers, be supportive, and let them unload their pain on you
Reply:If you were my coworker I would think flowers would be appropriate or a card...but that is going beyond the call of duty.
%26quot;I am sorry for your loss. I know that I can%26#039;t understand what you are going through...but if you need anything, just let me know%26quot;
Then don%26#039;t dwell unless she wants to talk about it.
And you are a very nice co-worker to even be concerned.
Reply:some flowers and a nice card i think, its difficult to not upset the person
Reply:A bouquet of flowers would be nice. You don%26#039;t really have to say much. They know. Just a nice %26quot;You are in my thoughts and prayers%26quot; or %26quot;I%26#039;m so sorry for your loss%26quot; is all that really needs to be said.
Reply:Hi, very tough situation but whatever you do: DON%26#039;T avoid her, keep it very simple as some others said. I lost a baby 7 years ago, my company sent me a huge %26amp; beautiful bouquet of flowers, everytime I was looking at it, I was bursting to tears and couldn%26#039;t wait to put it in the bin.
Personnaly, I prefered a simple card and a nice %26amp; short talk, tell her how sorry you are to hear that... but don%26#039;t go on unless she%26#039;s willing to talk.
Also some people were just avoiding me, I thought at the time they didn%26#039;t care about what happen to me. You obviously care very much otherwise you wouldn%26#039;t ask this question.
Reply:I%26#039;d say...
%26quot;Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time of great loss.
With deepest sympathy,
Your name%26quot;
loan
What to say/do when a friend loses her full-term baby?
I just found out that a friend lost her full-term baby during delivery last night. I want to convey my sadness for her and her husband, but I don%26#039;t know if it is appropriate to call or send flowers. If I talk to her, what should I say? I can%26#039;t begin to imagine the pain of carrying a child for nine months only to lose it in the delivery room...
What to say/do when a friend loses her full-term baby?
Thats terrible for her....something like that would crush you! I couldnt imagine that. Definately dont call because thats not personal enough. You could buy her a plant or a rose instead so she can plant it somewhere and feel close to the baby she lost. Sometimes u dont need to say much but by making yourself available and simply hugging and letting her know u care and are there if she needs you will mean alot. And dont forget about her in a month, she will need your shoulder for alot longer. Even maker her meals little things mean alot.
Just want to add that i had an ectopic pregnancy and i have a teddy bear (given when i found out i was preg) and also a small vase with flowers now dried that remind me of the baby.
Reply:i have a friend that lost her full term baby boy, it was very difficult to comfort her i let her know i was there for her but i also gave her space she came to me when she was ready.
Reply:only thing you can say, is that you are there for her and her husband...just be there. that is all she needs....Turthfully nothing you or anyone will say will be comforting to her...not for a long long time....if she rejects your at first, dont take it personal....just say I dont want to bother you....but I am here for you. and whatever you need I will be here to give.
Good luck...so sorry to hear about your friends loss, this will be a hard thing for all of you.
Reply:you need to go see her, hug her be there for her, cry with her, support her, there are no right words to say it will never be enough, listen to what she has to say and go from there i could never imagine dealing with this it is heart breaking, whatever you do do not say well you%26#039;ll have another someday, thatis probably the last thing she wants to hear.....
Reply:You don%26#039;t say if you live near-by. Please don%26#039;t send anything, they don%26#039;t need to deal with stuff, right now. If you call, ask him--not her--if you can come over, and if you can, just sit quietly with her and let her cry on you. Don%26#039;t talk unless she initiates any remarks, and keep your replys brief and loving.
Bring food, anything is fine, but hot-dishes are best. Use plates or bowls you don%26#039;t require returned. And if you%26#039;re a good friend, continue to bring food as well as any supplies she may need.
Let her husband do what he needs to do to support them.
And continue not to offer advice. Just be there, let her cry on you. This is a quick answer, I%26#039;m sure there are other ideas, too.
Reply:Don%26#039;t call I am sure she isn%26#039;t up to talking. She must be devastated, poor thing. Maybe you can bring her dinner or send her a card and flwoer letting her know you are there for her.
Reply:Nothing U can do or say my momma%26#039;s friend lost her baby in an early birth I think it was a month early she greived and greived but now she wound up pregnant after only a year they told her to wait a few years or untill she thought she was ready to try again and she was on birth control and used condoms but now she is pregnant again all U can do is be there for her (I%26#039;d pray for her too but I don%26#039;t know if u or her or religious so ya........) But in any case I will pray for her! any way good luck
Reply:Don%26#039;t need to say anything, nothing will sound right. Just be there for her, let her do the talking when she is ready. I%26#039;m sorry...
Reply:If possible, go see her. Give them both a hug. Tell them you%26#039;re so very sorry for their lose. Let them know you are there for them if they ever need you. When she get out of the hospital, bring over some food. Offer to run errands for her, etc. I think you get the idea. She will be in no condition to do much. Once you ascess the situtation, then you%26#039;ll know when to step back or help. Remember, they need time to grieve.
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What to say/do when a friend loses her full-term baby?
Thats terrible for her....something like that would crush you! I couldnt imagine that. Definately dont call because thats not personal enough. You could buy her a plant or a rose instead so she can plant it somewhere and feel close to the baby she lost. Sometimes u dont need to say much but by making yourself available and simply hugging and letting her know u care and are there if she needs you will mean alot. And dont forget about her in a month, she will need your shoulder for alot longer. Even maker her meals little things mean alot.
Just want to add that i had an ectopic pregnancy and i have a teddy bear (given when i found out i was preg) and also a small vase with flowers now dried that remind me of the baby.
Reply:i have a friend that lost her full term baby boy, it was very difficult to comfort her i let her know i was there for her but i also gave her space she came to me when she was ready.
Reply:only thing you can say, is that you are there for her and her husband...just be there. that is all she needs....Turthfully nothing you or anyone will say will be comforting to her...not for a long long time....if she rejects your at first, dont take it personal....just say I dont want to bother you....but I am here for you. and whatever you need I will be here to give.
Good luck...so sorry to hear about your friends loss, this will be a hard thing for all of you.
Reply:you need to go see her, hug her be there for her, cry with her, support her, there are no right words to say it will never be enough, listen to what she has to say and go from there i could never imagine dealing with this it is heart breaking, whatever you do do not say well you%26#039;ll have another someday, thatis probably the last thing she wants to hear.....
Reply:You don%26#039;t say if you live near-by. Please don%26#039;t send anything, they don%26#039;t need to deal with stuff, right now. If you call, ask him--not her--if you can come over, and if you can, just sit quietly with her and let her cry on you. Don%26#039;t talk unless she initiates any remarks, and keep your replys brief and loving.
Bring food, anything is fine, but hot-dishes are best. Use plates or bowls you don%26#039;t require returned. And if you%26#039;re a good friend, continue to bring food as well as any supplies she may need.
Let her husband do what he needs to do to support them.
And continue not to offer advice. Just be there, let her cry on you. This is a quick answer, I%26#039;m sure there are other ideas, too.
Reply:Don%26#039;t call I am sure she isn%26#039;t up to talking. She must be devastated, poor thing. Maybe you can bring her dinner or send her a card and flwoer letting her know you are there for her.
Reply:Nothing U can do or say my momma%26#039;s friend lost her baby in an early birth I think it was a month early she greived and greived but now she wound up pregnant after only a year they told her to wait a few years or untill she thought she was ready to try again and she was on birth control and used condoms but now she is pregnant again all U can do is be there for her (I%26#039;d pray for her too but I don%26#039;t know if u or her or religious so ya........) But in any case I will pray for her! any way good luck
Reply:Don%26#039;t need to say anything, nothing will sound right. Just be there for her, let her do the talking when she is ready. I%26#039;m sorry...
Reply:If possible, go see her. Give them both a hug. Tell them you%26#039;re so very sorry for their lose. Let them know you are there for them if they ever need you. When she get out of the hospital, bring over some food. Offer to run errands for her, etc. I think you get the idea. She will be in no condition to do much. Once you ascess the situtation, then you%26#039;ll know when to step back or help. Remember, they need time to grieve.
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I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby & lost her mother all in the same week.?
A very close friend of mine just had a baby on the 24th and lost her mother to cancer less than a week later. She just found out about the cancer in December, so this is all very sudden. To top it off, she had to have a c-section, so she couldn%26#039;t even get to the hospital to visit her, because she herself was still in the hospital. They were best friends, and I don%26#039;t know how she%26#039;s going to cope with all that%26#039;s on her plate right now, especially with her #1 supporter having passed away.
Any ideas for a great care package filled with goodies to cheer her up will be WONDERFUL!
So far, I have things like, flowers, her favorite foods, tissues... but I need more.
She loves pink, she%26#039;s 32, she%26#039;s girly, but not foo -foo frilly..
She has to take care of baby, AND take care of all the arrangements. Any ideas to help get her through would be great...
Thanks to all!
I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby %26amp; lost her mother all in the same week.?
im sorry to her about your friends loss. I too just had a baby and what has helped me the most is someone there to help cook and clean. also, i had really bad baby blues. make sure there is someone with your friend all the time, i never asked for help but when i was alone it was horrible. Offer to help dont wait for her to ask.
As for gifts... i like the idea of a journal or books on CD. She wont have too much time to sit down and read. I listen to mine while in traffic or driving the baby to sleep. maybe an hour massage or pedicure/manicure. You should do something that is for her since she will be doing so much for others right now. good luck.
Reply:Wow, I%26#039;m sorry for your friend%26#039;s loss. You know your friend best, but whatever trinkets you decide, I would wrap them and tell her open them when she needs a pick-me up. Maybe a journal? or a book of her liking, a good, funny, movie, coupons to call on you to talk, or help with the baby. pictures that might make her smile? Good luck
Reebok
Any ideas for a great care package filled with goodies to cheer her up will be WONDERFUL!
So far, I have things like, flowers, her favorite foods, tissues... but I need more.
She loves pink, she%26#039;s 32, she%26#039;s girly, but not foo -foo frilly..
She has to take care of baby, AND take care of all the arrangements. Any ideas to help get her through would be great...
Thanks to all!
I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby %26amp; lost her mother all in the same week.?
im sorry to her about your friends loss. I too just had a baby and what has helped me the most is someone there to help cook and clean. also, i had really bad baby blues. make sure there is someone with your friend all the time, i never asked for help but when i was alone it was horrible. Offer to help dont wait for her to ask.
As for gifts... i like the idea of a journal or books on CD. She wont have too much time to sit down and read. I listen to mine while in traffic or driving the baby to sleep. maybe an hour massage or pedicure/manicure. You should do something that is for her since she will be doing so much for others right now. good luck.
Reply:Wow, I%26#039;m sorry for your friend%26#039;s loss. You know your friend best, but whatever trinkets you decide, I would wrap them and tell her open them when she needs a pick-me up. Maybe a journal? or a book of her liking, a good, funny, movie, coupons to call on you to talk, or help with the baby. pictures that might make her smile? Good luck
Reebok
What should I get for my best friend whos unborn baby just died?
My best friend moved away last Decemeber, she is 30yo, and since then her and her husband had gotten pregnant. She had a complicated pregnancy the entire time, and last wk at approx 6ms pregant, she lost the baby. She is not doing so well, and I know it is going to take a long time to learn how to cope with it. I thought of the idea to put a box together for her, me and some other friends, instead of just sending her flowers, like everyone else. I am trying to think of some good things to put in her box, that will show her how many people care about her and just try to make her feel a little bit better. Does anyone have any suggestions to what I could include in there? Thank you in advance:)
What should I get for my best friend whos unborn baby just died?
Our daughter was recently born still born and I am not trying to speak for your friend, but during our grieving it has been nice to have those that are willing to listen and not send another I am sorry card. My one friend took me out for a day of pampering and it was very nice to have a little time where I felt like I could clear my head just her and I. Another gave us a seedling to plant and that meant alot as well. I would suggest something like that if you feel like you want to do something for them or her. Just let her know you are there for them right now, that alone means alot. No matter how far you are in your pregnancy it is still a very hard thing to cope with. We were full term when we lost our precious daughter and although yes it is hard, I know we will get through this and I just have to believe she is in a better place.
Reply:Don%26#039;t Worry About What To Get Her. It Won%26#039;t matter. Just Be There For Her.
Reply:I just lost my son on August 28th. He was 45 years old, but your child is your child no matter what the age. What meant the most to me (from those who couldn%26#039;t actually talk to me in person) were the beautiful cards and notes that expressed their compassion. Also, things such as an angel pin that was to remind me that my loved one is in heaven now, and a framed Bible verse: Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4. Perhaps a cute Precious Moments figurine, or something similar that is special to your friend would be nice. Your friend is fortunate to have a friend like you who is trying to make her feel better. I hope that my suggestions help.
Reply:Sylvia Browne books.
They will help her understand why her baby did not make it full term, but that it is normal and natural.
Reply:Maybe put some things in there to pamper her. Soaps, lotions, etc. Just womanly things that she%26#039;ll need to help take care of herself and keep her spirits up through this rough time. Possibly some self-help books that she can read about dealing with grief and loss also. Our bible study group is getting together a gift for someone in our group who just miscarried and someone had the idea of including a Willow Tree angel in the gift. Have you seen those? Apparently they have different angels for different purposes and there is a %26quot;Rememberance Angel%26quot; to honor the loss of a loved one. You may want to include one of those. It%26#039;s a great idea to do what you%26#039;re doing, and I%26#039;m sure she%26#039;ll know how much you all care about her.
Reply:Your PRESENCE would mean a lot. How far away did she move?
Reply:honestly if there was a way i%26#039;d say one of you try to go see her that would be best but if not maybe pics and momentos of stuff you guys did together (happier times) and probably a teddy bear oh and something for her to break or tear apart.
Reply:she wouldn%26#039;t have officially named her baby but perhaps she had a name in mind, you can register a star in the baby%26#039;s name, stars are in the heavens, babys in heaven, all she need to to remember her little one is look into the night sky.
Reply:There%26#039;s absolutely nothing that you can give her to console her. Gifts aren%26#039;t going to help her, in fact everytime she looks at the gifts in the future, the memories will come rushing back, that%26#039;s not good. Its best to send her flowers and a card and visit her often.
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Reply:You should get her and yourself a spa treatment. Take her to a nice spa and be there with her. Perhaps between being able to relax and having her friend with her it will help her to ease the pain of her loss. By the way I%26#039;m so sorry this happened. Know this, that baby is not really dead. The baby is now in Heaven with God. And if she accepts Christ or if she has done it already she will get to be with her child in Heaven. So if she accepts Christ she may have lost her child on Earth. However, she will be reunited with the child in Heaven.
Reply:that%26#039;s a toughy. maybe have people just write letters? that%26#039;s a toughy. this is a very sensitive situation. if i had to put something in the box, i would pick something of mine that i really like and just give it to her, even if it was my favorite. but what to give her is the question. i would just be there for her. maybe have people write letters saying that they are there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on or somebody to just listen.
Reply:i can sympathizes with her (and you being the best friend,) my older sis lost a total of 5 kids, 2 were still born, and old enough to bury. :( . what you can do i put into your box some white candles (white for the purity of the child%26#039;s death.) and tell her to burn a candle every day all day in remembrance of her child, this is something she will NEVER forget. its a hard thing to accept that GOD would call your child home. but he has his reasons. GOD be with her in her time of need and sorrow. i wish her and her family good luck and a healthy pregnancy in the future. my heartfelt condolences to her and her family.
Reply:I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I like your idea about a box of good things rather than a temporarily nice arrangement of flowers.
Get your friends together to brain storm. Suggestions: Chocolate (of course.) Books (coping with death, inspirational, or something lighthearted - %26quot;Happiness is a Warm Puppy%26quot; comes to mind.) A gift certificate toward a day spa (or hairdresser, massage, manicure, or pedicure.) A charm for her bracelet or necklace, engraved with the name if it was picked out already. A snapshot of the happy couple from before this. Videos or CDs - again sappy or inspirational. A calling card if she doesn%26#039;t already have long distance - to call her friends.
I friend of mine recently lost her husband. She said most of her friends quit calling. Call your friend, even if it is just to say %26quot;Hi, I%26#039;m thinking of you.%26quot; It may seem awkward at first, but it gets easier. Take your clues from her. If she wants to talk about the baby, let her, if not, don%26#039;t press.
Don%26#039;t forget the husband. As big and as manly as he might be, he is suffering their loss, too, and may be very upset that his wife is hurting so much also.
Reply:flower seeds? or maybe get a tree (pear) that she can plant, so she will alwyas have a way to remember her baby that never was.
Reply:She might appreciate some personal pampering products--Bath and Body Works type stuff. Also, if you could find an encouraging book for her (Chicken Soup for the Soul--type), especially related to her situation or to her personal faith if you can find it. If you know what kind of snacks or treats she likes (gourmet coffee or chocolates) that might be good to include as well.
That along with a sweet card with personal notes would be a sweet and thoughtful way to reach out to her.
I don%26#039;t know if they had named the baby or had any sort of memorial, but if you feel it would be appropriate you might consider placing a book in a children%26#039;s library (either public community library or her church library) in memory of this baby. (Or just in their names?)
The reason this would be special is that one day, if/when she has other children, she might have the opportunity to share this book with those children and somehow connect them to the baby she lost. I would only do this if you thought it would mean something to her and not add to her pain somehow.
The other thing sort of similar to this you could do is to send her a seedling of a tree to plant in their yard in memory of this child. I have given bushes or trees to families who have lost children or loved ones and they have expressed that it was a very special remembrance. Since you are doing this long-distance that may be kind of trick to pull off, but it%26#039;s a thought.
Reply:your compassion and support
Reply:If she moved away, I would send her something from home, a local favorite or something like that. Most important is just to show her that she is still loved and thought about in her time of grief.
Reply:omg, this is a great idea. I too, lost a baby and i feel her pain. U sound like a great friennd. Absolutely nothing to do with babies. Idk her religious aspects, so that MIGHT be a possibility. it helped me some. A cute nick nack or a gift card to a spa or otherspecial treat like the movies to get her out and feel a lil better. another idea is a stuffed animal to just hold when she crys..and believe me..she will have rebounds of cryin. sorry for her loss, hope i helped. I also agree with the people above stating to go to her..it would help. Also, the tree planting thing helps too. i did that. I did feel sader with the death and so sorry cards. I got a card that simply stated, I%26#039;m here for u when u need to talk. it was soo sweet and i ended up confiding in her.
Reply:I think the best thing you could do is write a letter expressing your feelings and thoughts to her. I am not sure a box would be helpful at this point- maybe later.
Reply:Just let her know you will be there for her. She needs time to just be left alone. Sometimes too much fuss is the last thing you want when your grieving.
Reply:Tell her you can only imagine her sorrow. Then tell her that god knows what he is doing.
Reply:Having had a miscarriage myself I can honestly tell you that the best thing for her right now is having a good support group. She%26#039;ll need someone to talk to, even if you can%26#039;t relate to what she is saying, just being there and listening means a lot. Having a good friend is the best thing for her right now and part of being a friend is also making sure her husband is giving her his support as well. I was isolated from my family and my husband was not there for me and I fell into a great depression so please be there for her and make sure her husband knows this as well. She needs most of all to be held and comforted and to know that it was not her fault.
Reply:As much as I hate to say this, there really isn%26#039;t anything that you can do to help her. Only time will heal her wounds. The best thing you can do now is to offer her support. Perhaps, you should do something unique and give her more than %26#039;surface%26#039; support. If you know your friend pretty well, you should know what she would really want in this situation even if she doesn%26#039;t know it herself yet.
Reply:Are there any spas close to where she lives? You guys could go together to get her a day at a spa, or a massage. Might make her feel a little better. I don%26#039;t know though...that is such a tough situation. When you loose a child it seems like nothing really makes them feel a whole lot better. Just the thought that people are thinking about her will help a lot! Hope everything works out.
Reply:I had a friend who had a baby pass away, and she told me that she wanted to be left alone. It made her sad when people sent her things because she didn%26#039;t want all the extra attention, and the %26quot;omg im so sorry%26quot;s. Instead I told her I was there for her if she needed to talk. Your friend might be different, but my advice is the best gift you can give is your ears and yoru heart.
Reply:Obviously a visit would be best...
My mom got this gift for a friend of mine and she later said that it really helped her. http://www.babylosskit.com/baby_loss_kit...
We also got her an engraved necklace with the baby%26#039;s approximate conception and death dates on it. People may say that she needs to %26quot;get over it%26quot; or that she can have another baby, but it%26#039;s important to memoralize the baby she lost in some way. This will give her a chance to mourn and come to terms with the loss.
More than anything make sure you provide her plenty of support and comfort.
Reply:You know, the box is a good idea, but something I saw a while back impressed me.
It is a living memorial, where a tree is planted in memory of the loved one.
Some names of organizations who do this are treegivers.com, treepeople.org, and there are several others.
Google it to find the specifics for the state she lives in. There is a wheeping willow at a lake near where I live with a small plaque under it as a memorial. I am always touched by it and the tree is so beautiful it gives pleasure to everyone who sees it.
Reply:I wouldnt go all out for something like that. Really it is so personal she may not want people to make it a big deal, everytime they do it reminds her of her lose. If I were you a simple card to know you care and that you are there for her is all that is needed. You dont have to focus on the baby but focus on a friendship that is unconditional and let her know that no matter what she goes through she is in your thoughts and prayers and whenever she needs you you will be there for her. That is good enough I wouldnt press it or make a big deal of it.
Reply:tricky 1 - im sure whatever you put in it will be a lovely gesture, myself i think i would appreciate a large bottle of spirit!!
perhaps you could all chip in for tickets for a little getaway holiday so they can escape %26amp; grieve 2gether %26amp; start 2 heal
Reply:Try giving her something meaningful taht represents strength, hope or family... My mother lost 2 babies and we made her a bracelet with the stones of the birth months of when the twins would have been born. It was really hard for her to accept it and truthfully the only thing that will help her heal is time buit presents that symbolize the babies life to teach her not to forget them or things that symbolize hope are really good ideas...
goodluck to you and to your friend
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What should I get for my best friend whos unborn baby just died?
Our daughter was recently born still born and I am not trying to speak for your friend, but during our grieving it has been nice to have those that are willing to listen and not send another I am sorry card. My one friend took me out for a day of pampering and it was very nice to have a little time where I felt like I could clear my head just her and I. Another gave us a seedling to plant and that meant alot as well. I would suggest something like that if you feel like you want to do something for them or her. Just let her know you are there for them right now, that alone means alot. No matter how far you are in your pregnancy it is still a very hard thing to cope with. We were full term when we lost our precious daughter and although yes it is hard, I know we will get through this and I just have to believe she is in a better place.
Reply:Don%26#039;t Worry About What To Get Her. It Won%26#039;t matter. Just Be There For Her.
Reply:I just lost my son on August 28th. He was 45 years old, but your child is your child no matter what the age. What meant the most to me (from those who couldn%26#039;t actually talk to me in person) were the beautiful cards and notes that expressed their compassion. Also, things such as an angel pin that was to remind me that my loved one is in heaven now, and a framed Bible verse: Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4. Perhaps a cute Precious Moments figurine, or something similar that is special to your friend would be nice. Your friend is fortunate to have a friend like you who is trying to make her feel better. I hope that my suggestions help.
Reply:Sylvia Browne books.
They will help her understand why her baby did not make it full term, but that it is normal and natural.
Reply:Maybe put some things in there to pamper her. Soaps, lotions, etc. Just womanly things that she%26#039;ll need to help take care of herself and keep her spirits up through this rough time. Possibly some self-help books that she can read about dealing with grief and loss also. Our bible study group is getting together a gift for someone in our group who just miscarried and someone had the idea of including a Willow Tree angel in the gift. Have you seen those? Apparently they have different angels for different purposes and there is a %26quot;Rememberance Angel%26quot; to honor the loss of a loved one. You may want to include one of those. It%26#039;s a great idea to do what you%26#039;re doing, and I%26#039;m sure she%26#039;ll know how much you all care about her.
Reply:Your PRESENCE would mean a lot. How far away did she move?
Reply:honestly if there was a way i%26#039;d say one of you try to go see her that would be best but if not maybe pics and momentos of stuff you guys did together (happier times) and probably a teddy bear oh and something for her to break or tear apart.
Reply:she wouldn%26#039;t have officially named her baby but perhaps she had a name in mind, you can register a star in the baby%26#039;s name, stars are in the heavens, babys in heaven, all she need to to remember her little one is look into the night sky.
Reply:There%26#039;s absolutely nothing that you can give her to console her. Gifts aren%26#039;t going to help her, in fact everytime she looks at the gifts in the future, the memories will come rushing back, that%26#039;s not good. Its best to send her flowers and a card and visit her often.
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Reply:You should get her and yourself a spa treatment. Take her to a nice spa and be there with her. Perhaps between being able to relax and having her friend with her it will help her to ease the pain of her loss. By the way I%26#039;m so sorry this happened. Know this, that baby is not really dead. The baby is now in Heaven with God. And if she accepts Christ or if she has done it already she will get to be with her child in Heaven. So if she accepts Christ she may have lost her child on Earth. However, she will be reunited with the child in Heaven.
Reply:that%26#039;s a toughy. maybe have people just write letters? that%26#039;s a toughy. this is a very sensitive situation. if i had to put something in the box, i would pick something of mine that i really like and just give it to her, even if it was my favorite. but what to give her is the question. i would just be there for her. maybe have people write letters saying that they are there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on or somebody to just listen.
Reply:i can sympathizes with her (and you being the best friend,) my older sis lost a total of 5 kids, 2 were still born, and old enough to bury. :( . what you can do i put into your box some white candles (white for the purity of the child%26#039;s death.) and tell her to burn a candle every day all day in remembrance of her child, this is something she will NEVER forget. its a hard thing to accept that GOD would call your child home. but he has his reasons. GOD be with her in her time of need and sorrow. i wish her and her family good luck and a healthy pregnancy in the future. my heartfelt condolences to her and her family.
Reply:I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I like your idea about a box of good things rather than a temporarily nice arrangement of flowers.
Get your friends together to brain storm. Suggestions: Chocolate (of course.) Books (coping with death, inspirational, or something lighthearted - %26quot;Happiness is a Warm Puppy%26quot; comes to mind.) A gift certificate toward a day spa (or hairdresser, massage, manicure, or pedicure.) A charm for her bracelet or necklace, engraved with the name if it was picked out already. A snapshot of the happy couple from before this. Videos or CDs - again sappy or inspirational. A calling card if she doesn%26#039;t already have long distance - to call her friends.
I friend of mine recently lost her husband. She said most of her friends quit calling. Call your friend, even if it is just to say %26quot;Hi, I%26#039;m thinking of you.%26quot; It may seem awkward at first, but it gets easier. Take your clues from her. If she wants to talk about the baby, let her, if not, don%26#039;t press.
Don%26#039;t forget the husband. As big and as manly as he might be, he is suffering their loss, too, and may be very upset that his wife is hurting so much also.
Reply:flower seeds? or maybe get a tree (pear) that she can plant, so she will alwyas have a way to remember her baby that never was.
Reply:She might appreciate some personal pampering products--Bath and Body Works type stuff. Also, if you could find an encouraging book for her (Chicken Soup for the Soul--type), especially related to her situation or to her personal faith if you can find it. If you know what kind of snacks or treats she likes (gourmet coffee or chocolates) that might be good to include as well.
That along with a sweet card with personal notes would be a sweet and thoughtful way to reach out to her.
I don%26#039;t know if they had named the baby or had any sort of memorial, but if you feel it would be appropriate you might consider placing a book in a children%26#039;s library (either public community library or her church library) in memory of this baby. (Or just in their names?)
The reason this would be special is that one day, if/when she has other children, she might have the opportunity to share this book with those children and somehow connect them to the baby she lost. I would only do this if you thought it would mean something to her and not add to her pain somehow.
The other thing sort of similar to this you could do is to send her a seedling of a tree to plant in their yard in memory of this child. I have given bushes or trees to families who have lost children or loved ones and they have expressed that it was a very special remembrance. Since you are doing this long-distance that may be kind of trick to pull off, but it%26#039;s a thought.
Reply:your compassion and support
Reply:If she moved away, I would send her something from home, a local favorite or something like that. Most important is just to show her that she is still loved and thought about in her time of grief.
Reply:omg, this is a great idea. I too, lost a baby and i feel her pain. U sound like a great friennd. Absolutely nothing to do with babies. Idk her religious aspects, so that MIGHT be a possibility. it helped me some. A cute nick nack or a gift card to a spa or otherspecial treat like the movies to get her out and feel a lil better. another idea is a stuffed animal to just hold when she crys..and believe me..she will have rebounds of cryin. sorry for her loss, hope i helped. I also agree with the people above stating to go to her..it would help. Also, the tree planting thing helps too. i did that. I did feel sader with the death and so sorry cards. I got a card that simply stated, I%26#039;m here for u when u need to talk. it was soo sweet and i ended up confiding in her.
Reply:I think the best thing you could do is write a letter expressing your feelings and thoughts to her. I am not sure a box would be helpful at this point- maybe later.
Reply:Just let her know you will be there for her. She needs time to just be left alone. Sometimes too much fuss is the last thing you want when your grieving.
Reply:Tell her you can only imagine her sorrow. Then tell her that god knows what he is doing.
Reply:Having had a miscarriage myself I can honestly tell you that the best thing for her right now is having a good support group. She%26#039;ll need someone to talk to, even if you can%26#039;t relate to what she is saying, just being there and listening means a lot. Having a good friend is the best thing for her right now and part of being a friend is also making sure her husband is giving her his support as well. I was isolated from my family and my husband was not there for me and I fell into a great depression so please be there for her and make sure her husband knows this as well. She needs most of all to be held and comforted and to know that it was not her fault.
Reply:As much as I hate to say this, there really isn%26#039;t anything that you can do to help her. Only time will heal her wounds. The best thing you can do now is to offer her support. Perhaps, you should do something unique and give her more than %26#039;surface%26#039; support. If you know your friend pretty well, you should know what she would really want in this situation even if she doesn%26#039;t know it herself yet.
Reply:Are there any spas close to where she lives? You guys could go together to get her a day at a spa, or a massage. Might make her feel a little better. I don%26#039;t know though...that is such a tough situation. When you loose a child it seems like nothing really makes them feel a whole lot better. Just the thought that people are thinking about her will help a lot! Hope everything works out.
Reply:I had a friend who had a baby pass away, and she told me that she wanted to be left alone. It made her sad when people sent her things because she didn%26#039;t want all the extra attention, and the %26quot;omg im so sorry%26quot;s. Instead I told her I was there for her if she needed to talk. Your friend might be different, but my advice is the best gift you can give is your ears and yoru heart.
Reply:Obviously a visit would be best...
My mom got this gift for a friend of mine and she later said that it really helped her. http://www.babylosskit.com/baby_loss_kit...
We also got her an engraved necklace with the baby%26#039;s approximate conception and death dates on it. People may say that she needs to %26quot;get over it%26quot; or that she can have another baby, but it%26#039;s important to memoralize the baby she lost in some way. This will give her a chance to mourn and come to terms with the loss.
More than anything make sure you provide her plenty of support and comfort.
Reply:You know, the box is a good idea, but something I saw a while back impressed me.
It is a living memorial, where a tree is planted in memory of the loved one.
Some names of organizations who do this are treegivers.com, treepeople.org, and there are several others.
Google it to find the specifics for the state she lives in. There is a wheeping willow at a lake near where I live with a small plaque under it as a memorial. I am always touched by it and the tree is so beautiful it gives pleasure to everyone who sees it.
Reply:I wouldnt go all out for something like that. Really it is so personal she may not want people to make it a big deal, everytime they do it reminds her of her lose. If I were you a simple card to know you care and that you are there for her is all that is needed. You dont have to focus on the baby but focus on a friendship that is unconditional and let her know that no matter what she goes through she is in your thoughts and prayers and whenever she needs you you will be there for her. That is good enough I wouldnt press it or make a big deal of it.
Reply:tricky 1 - im sure whatever you put in it will be a lovely gesture, myself i think i would appreciate a large bottle of spirit!!
perhaps you could all chip in for tickets for a little getaway holiday so they can escape %26amp; grieve 2gether %26amp; start 2 heal
Reply:Try giving her something meaningful taht represents strength, hope or family... My mother lost 2 babies and we made her a bracelet with the stones of the birth months of when the twins would have been born. It was really hard for her to accept it and truthfully the only thing that will help her heal is time buit presents that symbolize the babies life to teach her not to forget them or things that symbolize hope are really good ideas...
goodluck to you and to your friend
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I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby & lost her mother all in the same week.?
A very close friend of mine just had a baby on the 24th and lost her mother to cancer less than a week later. She just found out about the cancer in December, so this is all very sudden. To top it off, she had to have a c-section, so she couldn%26#039;t even get to the hospital to visit her, because she herself was still in the hospital. They were best friends, and I don%26#039;t know how she%26#039;s going to cope with all that%26#039;s on her plate right now, especially with her #1 supporter having passed away.
Any ideas for a great care package filled with goodies to cheer her up will be WONDERFUL!
So far, I have things like, flowers, her favorite foods, tissues... but I need more.
She loves pink, she%26#039;s 32, she%26#039;s girly, but not foo -foo frilly..
She has to take care of baby, AND take care of all the arrangements. Any ideas to help get her through would be great...
Thanks to all!
I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby %26amp; lost her mother all in the same week.?
The best thing to get her is you and your friendship with her....Being there with her helping anyway you can ...Be There!!
If she has any other family with her would help deal with the emotional road she%26#039;s going to be on for a very long time....Sometimes this will take years...What will be helpful is a written story of her and her Mom....Having notebooks and Pens in nice stylish decoration would be nice......Even if she doesn%26#039;t feel like writing right now...There will be times when she is watching the baby sleep...Her mind will fill with thoughts of her mom....and her growing up as a child...And the special things she will always have with her...Her memories of all the things her and her mom shared....There will be a moment when she want her baby to know and share all of these things....So these note books will someday be important to her.....Does she have a camera to take lots of pictures of the baby as it grows....Is she into scrap booking??
Are there things that She did with her Mom that she can continue to share with her baby??....If you can think of things Her Mom would do for her...now that the baby is here??....Buy her things you would know her Mom would do for her...Help her take care of as many of the arrangements for her as possible....The more you take off of her the better she will be able to deal with it.....Get as many of her friends as you can to help...especially if she doesn%26#039;t have any family around her....Stay with her as much as possible....She%26#039;s going to have a lot of ups and downs.....She want be getting much sleep....She%26#039;ll be needing people with her day and night for a while....Being There is a great thing to give her!!
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Any ideas for a great care package filled with goodies to cheer her up will be WONDERFUL!
So far, I have things like, flowers, her favorite foods, tissues... but I need more.
She loves pink, she%26#039;s 32, she%26#039;s girly, but not foo -foo frilly..
She has to take care of baby, AND take care of all the arrangements. Any ideas to help get her through would be great...
Thanks to all!
I need ideas for a care package for a friend who just had a baby %26amp; lost her mother all in the same week.?
The best thing to get her is you and your friendship with her....Being there with her helping anyway you can ...Be There!!
If she has any other family with her would help deal with the emotional road she%26#039;s going to be on for a very long time....Sometimes this will take years...What will be helpful is a written story of her and her Mom....Having notebooks and Pens in nice stylish decoration would be nice......Even if she doesn%26#039;t feel like writing right now...There will be times when she is watching the baby sleep...Her mind will fill with thoughts of her mom....and her growing up as a child...And the special things she will always have with her...Her memories of all the things her and her mom shared....There will be a moment when she want her baby to know and share all of these things....So these note books will someday be important to her.....Does she have a camera to take lots of pictures of the baby as it grows....Is she into scrap booking??
Are there things that She did with her Mom that she can continue to share with her baby??....If you can think of things Her Mom would do for her...now that the baby is here??....Buy her things you would know her Mom would do for her...Help her take care of as many of the arrangements for her as possible....The more you take off of her the better she will be able to deal with it.....Get as many of her friends as you can to help...especially if she doesn%26#039;t have any family around her....Stay with her as much as possible....She%26#039;s going to have a lot of ups and downs.....She want be getting much sleep....She%26#039;ll be needing people with her day and night for a while....Being There is a great thing to give her!!
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What do you think of the center piece for the baby shower im hosting?
I made this center piece for my cousisns baby shower. Do you like it? Anything you can think of that would make it better?
The board its sitting on is now covered with a blue recieving blanket she can take off to use, and also the flowers go all the way around the cake, when i took the pic it was not 100% done. Welll what do you think? Any suggestions? Thanks
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What do you think of the center piece for the baby shower im hosting?
wow! That must have taken a long time..It%26#039;s beautiful!! She is going to be one lucky Mamma! I love the blue ribbion! I think it%26#039;s perfect! I do think the blue receving blanket on the board is a great idea!!! Awesome!!! Hope you have fun at the shower!!
Reply:Very nicely done. :)
Reply:No, it looks great!
Reply:It%26#039;s soo cute, what a wonderful job!
Reply:I think it very nice, its a good idea because she can use the diapers for the baby.
Reply:Pacifiers around maybe. Its cool ;)...
Reply:Wow that is so beautiful!
Reply:Thats cute, I would be glad to receive something like that, good job. If you wanted you could also get some blue ribbon and tie a few pacifiers together around the base of it. Good Luck!
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The board its sitting on is now covered with a blue recieving blanket she can take off to use, and also the flowers go all the way around the cake, when i took the pic it was not 100% done. Welll what do you think? Any suggestions? Thanks
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What do you think of the center piece for the baby shower im hosting?
wow! That must have taken a long time..It%26#039;s beautiful!! She is going to be one lucky Mamma! I love the blue ribbion! I think it%26#039;s perfect! I do think the blue receving blanket on the board is a great idea!!! Awesome!!! Hope you have fun at the shower!!
Reply:Very nicely done. :)
Reply:No, it looks great!
Reply:It%26#039;s soo cute, what a wonderful job!
Reply:I think it very nice, its a good idea because she can use the diapers for the baby.
Reply:Pacifiers around maybe. Its cool ;)...
Reply:Wow that is so beautiful!
Reply:Thats cute, I would be glad to receive something like that, good job. If you wanted you could also get some blue ribbon and tie a few pacifiers together around the base of it. Good Luck!
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I need ideas for what to add to my baby phat cat tattoo?
i have like the outline of the baby phat cat just above my ankle but it looks kinda plain. i need some ideas on how 2 make it look more extravagant. i am pretty much a tomboy and i dont like flowers and pretty things, but i do like skulls and punk rock things and diamonds
I need ideas for what to add to my baby phat cat tattoo?
i think its kinda cool that ur into punk things and u have a baby phat cat tattoo. im a baby phat gurl but im more hip hop. i think it look cool if u got like cross bones in the back of the outline it would look different and still ur style good luck
Reply:Get a nice diamond necklace on for the cat, shiny white big fat diamonds. Avoid punk stuff there it will look strange and out of place, if u want that stuff get it elsewhere. If you add something you will probably have to get it filled otherwise an outline will look bad with other stuff inside of it.
Reply:eww that sounds tacky
Reply:sounds so GHETTO
Reply:Maybe try to come up with a design for the inside of the outline. Is the outline already colored in? That maybe an idea. Or look on Baby Phat website and see if they have any other emblems, etc. that you may like. Good Luck!!!!!
P.S. Maybe get your name by the cat in the same font that Baby Phat uses.
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I need ideas for what to add to my baby phat cat tattoo?
i think its kinda cool that ur into punk things and u have a baby phat cat tattoo. im a baby phat gurl but im more hip hop. i think it look cool if u got like cross bones in the back of the outline it would look different and still ur style good luck
Reply:Get a nice diamond necklace on for the cat, shiny white big fat diamonds. Avoid punk stuff there it will look strange and out of place, if u want that stuff get it elsewhere. If you add something you will probably have to get it filled otherwise an outline will look bad with other stuff inside of it.
Reply:eww that sounds tacky
Reply:sounds so GHETTO
Reply:Maybe try to come up with a design for the inside of the outline. Is the outline already colored in? That maybe an idea. Or look on Baby Phat website and see if they have any other emblems, etc. that you may like. Good Luck!!!!!
P.S. Maybe get your name by the cat in the same font that Baby Phat uses.
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I need suggestions for what to add to my baby phat tattoo?
i have like the outline of the baby phat cat just above my ankle but it looks kinda plain. i need some ideas on how 2 make it look more extravagant. i am pretty much a tomboy and i dont like flowers and pretty things, but i do like skulls and punk rock things and diamonds
I need suggestions for what to add to my baby phat tattoo?
i honestly don%26#039;t know what the baby phat cat is...but a diamond collar with a skull hanging (like how cats have flu shot tags) maybe. star on the cats hind end kinda like how they brand cattle
Reply:tribal
Reply:Add some body rhinestones around and change up the color of them. It will give a different look to every outfil you wear!
Reply:Diamonds, I think that would be very appropriate with a baby phat logo.
Reply:well, you could add some tribal to it, or some stars, or some diamonds, try and play around with ideas, if you can sketch at all, or go online and try and print stuff off that looks cool with the Baby Phat cat...Or, you could go to an artist, tell him what you are into, and what you aren%26#039;t and he/she can draw up something custom for you, or suggest some things!! Good luck and Happy Inking!!!
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I need suggestions for what to add to my baby phat tattoo?
i honestly don%26#039;t know what the baby phat cat is...but a diamond collar with a skull hanging (like how cats have flu shot tags) maybe. star on the cats hind end kinda like how they brand cattle
Reply:tribal
Reply:Add some body rhinestones around and change up the color of them. It will give a different look to every outfil you wear!
Reply:Diamonds, I think that would be very appropriate with a baby phat logo.
Reply:well, you could add some tribal to it, or some stars, or some diamonds, try and play around with ideas, if you can sketch at all, or go online and try and print stuff off that looks cool with the Baby Phat cat...Or, you could go to an artist, tell him what you are into, and what you aren%26#039;t and he/she can draw up something custom for you, or suggest some things!! Good luck and Happy Inking!!!
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Which bedding set do you like best for my baby girl? NEED HELP!?
I am choosing the type of bedding i lwant to buy and I have narrowed it down to 7. Out of the links below can you tell me which set is your favorite? I am having a baby girl! PLEASE HELP!!!??
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Turtle-Bay/P...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Sweet-As-A-D...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Petals/PID/4...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Gabriella/PI...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Bright-Butte...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Picci-Hippy-...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Flora/PID/48...
Which bedding set do you like best for my baby girl? NEED HELP!?
The petals one! It is BEAUTIFUL, but they are all pretty so it was tough.
Reply:i really like 2 and 4.their different.
Reply:The petals is my favorite. but my second choice is gabrielle
Reply:I like the third and fifth links.. Cute!
Reply:I prefer the second one (the purple one) it is so pretty....but purple is my favourite colour.
Reply:I like them in this order
1. the petals (#3)
2.the butterfly (#5)
3.Picci hippy flowers (#6)
4. the flora ( #7)
they are all VERY cute so what ever one you pick will be great! good luck and congrats!!!
Reply:Hands down, the turtle one, but i%26#039;m not a huge fan of pink, and the 2nd one looks really quite bland. Seconds is the pink and brown one, that would look great if you have dark wood furniture like the photo.
this is kinda cute too..http://cgi.ebay.com/Cute-Baby-Girls-Turt...
I wanted to suggest you trying ebay as well, and even if you find one ur sure u want, check on ebay to see if its on there cheaper before u buy full price. (past experience) ALSO, at babies r us, a lot of time they have clearance bed sets in the back,.ask for that area...i found my bedding there a week after baby was born, i was pissed lol!
Reply:Wow! Tough choice! My two favorites are the purple Sweet As A Daisy, and the pink and brown Petals.
Reply:I like te first three but i had picked the tutle one for if i was having a boy...it looked more boyish to me....but i think it could go either way....The petals one and the second one i loved and had those on my list as well but then i found one called Gossamer Wings at babies r us....and i fell in love....lol!!
Either way its up to you....good luck!!
Also try maybe looking at them in person cause i had picked some online that i liked and when i seen them in person i didnt care for it as much!!
Anyway my top pick on here is #3!!
Reply:I liked the Gabriella and the Picci Hippie flower one.
Reply:WOW you have GREAT taste!! That is a hard choice!! I really like the pink and brown!! I did my sons in blue and brown and it turned out really cute!!
Reply:petals is beautiful..I used a set called blossom I got it at babies rus
Reply:the gabriella one is cool.
Reply:I like the Gabriella one, personally. Its really happy and girly! All of them are cute though.
Congrats!
Reply:I have Gabriella and I LOVE IT...so much out there that goes with it that isnt even from the exact line...easy to accessorize
Reply:I definitely like the turtles best. Not everything needs to be pink!
Reply:the turtles and gabriella.... they have the least amount of pink!!! even if you love pink, you%26#039;ll be flooded w/ pink stuff, clothes, toys, blankets.......... so limiting the pink in the bedding and accessories would be a huge thing for me!!!
Reply:I like the Hippy Flowers set. It%26#039;s bright, which is always a good thing, and I like the mixtures of the different patterns.
Reply:i lobe the petals one! wish i saw that before i decorated my nursery!!!
Reply:I%26#039;ve actually seen the Petals set in the store and it is quite beautiful so that%26#039;s my pick :)
Reply:i like the seconed one but i feel in love with the third if i have another girl i am getting that one!! but i would go with the third or second one
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http://www.babyuniverse.com/Turtle-Bay/P...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Sweet-As-A-D...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Petals/PID/4...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Gabriella/PI...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Bright-Butte...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Picci-Hippy-...
http://www.babyuniverse.com/Flora/PID/48...
Which bedding set do you like best for my baby girl? NEED HELP!?
The petals one! It is BEAUTIFUL, but they are all pretty so it was tough.
Reply:i really like 2 and 4.their different.
Reply:The petals is my favorite. but my second choice is gabrielle
Reply:I like the third and fifth links.. Cute!
Reply:I prefer the second one (the purple one) it is so pretty....but purple is my favourite colour.
Reply:I like them in this order
1. the petals (#3)
2.the butterfly (#5)
3.Picci hippy flowers (#6)
4. the flora ( #7)
they are all VERY cute so what ever one you pick will be great! good luck and congrats!!!
Reply:Hands down, the turtle one, but i%26#039;m not a huge fan of pink, and the 2nd one looks really quite bland. Seconds is the pink and brown one, that would look great if you have dark wood furniture like the photo.
this is kinda cute too..http://cgi.ebay.com/Cute-Baby-Girls-Turt...
I wanted to suggest you trying ebay as well, and even if you find one ur sure u want, check on ebay to see if its on there cheaper before u buy full price. (past experience) ALSO, at babies r us, a lot of time they have clearance bed sets in the back,.ask for that area...i found my bedding there a week after baby was born, i was pissed lol!
Reply:Wow! Tough choice! My two favorites are the purple Sweet As A Daisy, and the pink and brown Petals.
Reply:I like te first three but i had picked the tutle one for if i was having a boy...it looked more boyish to me....but i think it could go either way....The petals one and the second one i loved and had those on my list as well but then i found one called Gossamer Wings at babies r us....and i fell in love....lol!!
Either way its up to you....good luck!!
Also try maybe looking at them in person cause i had picked some online that i liked and when i seen them in person i didnt care for it as much!!
Anyway my top pick on here is #3!!
Reply:I liked the Gabriella and the Picci Hippie flower one.
Reply:WOW you have GREAT taste!! That is a hard choice!! I really like the pink and brown!! I did my sons in blue and brown and it turned out really cute!!
Reply:petals is beautiful..I used a set called blossom I got it at babies rus
Reply:the gabriella one is cool.
Reply:I like the Gabriella one, personally. Its really happy and girly! All of them are cute though.
Congrats!
Reply:I have Gabriella and I LOVE IT...so much out there that goes with it that isnt even from the exact line...easy to accessorize
Reply:I definitely like the turtles best. Not everything needs to be pink!
Reply:the turtles and gabriella.... they have the least amount of pink!!! even if you love pink, you%26#039;ll be flooded w/ pink stuff, clothes, toys, blankets.......... so limiting the pink in the bedding and accessories would be a huge thing for me!!!
Reply:I like the Hippy Flowers set. It%26#039;s bright, which is always a good thing, and I like the mixtures of the different patterns.
Reply:i lobe the petals one! wish i saw that before i decorated my nursery!!!
Reply:I%26#039;ve actually seen the Petals set in the store and it is quite beautiful so that%26#039;s my pick :)
Reply:i like the seconed one but i feel in love with the third if i have another girl i am getting that one!! but i would go with the third or second one
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My sister in law has had a still born baby.?
My sister in law went into labour last night, but unfortunately, due to complications, the baby died.
I have never seen eye to eye with my sister in law, but my heart goes out to her at this time.
What should I do. She is still in hospital at the moment and I do not think she is up to visitors. Would it be ok to send her flowers along with a card saying how sorry we are and that if she needs anything, we are here!
I have never had to do this sort of thing before so am not sure what is appropriate.
My sister in law has had a still born baby.?
The flowers and a card are a nice gesture. It will be a difficult time for her, so don%26#039;t be hurt if you do not hear from her for awhile.
Reply:drop her a card in life is too short and she will be in so much greif and pain she will be happy to know you were there. put issues aside and you may find a real friend in each other. god bless.
Reply:Flowers would be nice, with a card that says thinking of you with love and prayers and a short visit a little later, don%26#039;t talk much during the visit, just give her a kiss on the forehead and let her know you love her and quietly go. That would mean more than anything, to know her family was there for support. She probably doesn%26#039;t want to hear a lot of %26quot;sorry for your loss%26quot;, just a caring smile and a hug can be comforting.
Reply:comfort her as much as you can but she might want to be left alone for a while my heart goes out to her %26amp; hubby xxx
Reply:Oh I’m so sorry to hear about that. How heartbreaking! Not that it matters, but was this their first?
Flowers and a card are nice, but I also think during times like these, helping in other ways is just as nice. I know she’s probably numb and kind of depressed at the moment and won’t want to do anything for a while. (I assume) Helping around the house, or cooking meals and freezing them for her to eat later on…sometimes that helps so much more. I know right now it’s early, and flowers and a card should be fine, but ask later down the road when a little time has passed if you can help in other ways.
I’m so sorry for their loss!!
Reply:I am so sorry...the best thing you can do is send her and your brother a card that expresses how you feel. Call your brother and ask if there is anything you can do at their home before your sister-in-law is released from the hospital. Let her know you are there for her if she needs you but she may not take you up on your offer. Don%26#039;t be offended, she may be dealing with this in her own way.
Reply:Sorry to hear about your SIL. Yes but perhaps wait until she is home to send them. Even though you have not seen eye to eye with her be there for her. She is going to need it.
Good luck!
Reply:You should absolutely reach out to her during this time. A card with a personal note and a flower arrangement or a plant is perfect. Reach out to your brother too. He has had the same loss as his wife with the added helpless fear that he possibly could have lost her too. Embrace them both and offer your support. Both of them are part of your family. Love them as such.
Reply:SORRY FIR THE LOST ...ITS SO SAD....PLEASE SHE WILL FEEL APPRECIATED FOR FLOWERS AND CARD..ITS FINE
Reply:I went through the same thing as you 8 months ago. My Sister-In-Law lost her baby at 19 weeks.
Show your grief to her and your sorrow. Send her flowers and tell her how sorry you are for her and your brothers loss. The pain that they are going through is heart breaking to stand and see. Be strong for them and do what they say when they need it.
I went over to there house and cleaned up for them, like getting some of the baby books off the coffee table and little things like that. Go out and get her some yummy food, since hospital food tastes like dog food.
I am sorry for your loss also. Everyone int he family will be heartbroken and it takes time and tender loving care.
Our little Isaac has a memorial web site that we all go to and we post messages to him and to help Mommy %26amp; Daddy with the grieving process.
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I have never seen eye to eye with my sister in law, but my heart goes out to her at this time.
What should I do. She is still in hospital at the moment and I do not think she is up to visitors. Would it be ok to send her flowers along with a card saying how sorry we are and that if she needs anything, we are here!
I have never had to do this sort of thing before so am not sure what is appropriate.
My sister in law has had a still born baby.?
The flowers and a card are a nice gesture. It will be a difficult time for her, so don%26#039;t be hurt if you do not hear from her for awhile.
Reply:drop her a card in life is too short and she will be in so much greif and pain she will be happy to know you were there. put issues aside and you may find a real friend in each other. god bless.
Reply:Flowers would be nice, with a card that says thinking of you with love and prayers and a short visit a little later, don%26#039;t talk much during the visit, just give her a kiss on the forehead and let her know you love her and quietly go. That would mean more than anything, to know her family was there for support. She probably doesn%26#039;t want to hear a lot of %26quot;sorry for your loss%26quot;, just a caring smile and a hug can be comforting.
Reply:comfort her as much as you can but she might want to be left alone for a while my heart goes out to her %26amp; hubby xxx
Reply:Oh I’m so sorry to hear about that. How heartbreaking! Not that it matters, but was this their first?
Flowers and a card are nice, but I also think during times like these, helping in other ways is just as nice. I know she’s probably numb and kind of depressed at the moment and won’t want to do anything for a while. (I assume) Helping around the house, or cooking meals and freezing them for her to eat later on…sometimes that helps so much more. I know right now it’s early, and flowers and a card should be fine, but ask later down the road when a little time has passed if you can help in other ways.
I’m so sorry for their loss!!
Reply:I am so sorry...the best thing you can do is send her and your brother a card that expresses how you feel. Call your brother and ask if there is anything you can do at their home before your sister-in-law is released from the hospital. Let her know you are there for her if she needs you but she may not take you up on your offer. Don%26#039;t be offended, she may be dealing with this in her own way.
Reply:Sorry to hear about your SIL. Yes but perhaps wait until she is home to send them. Even though you have not seen eye to eye with her be there for her. She is going to need it.
Good luck!
Reply:You should absolutely reach out to her during this time. A card with a personal note and a flower arrangement or a plant is perfect. Reach out to your brother too. He has had the same loss as his wife with the added helpless fear that he possibly could have lost her too. Embrace them both and offer your support. Both of them are part of your family. Love them as such.
Reply:SORRY FIR THE LOST ...ITS SO SAD....PLEASE SHE WILL FEEL APPRECIATED FOR FLOWERS AND CARD..ITS FINE
Reply:I went through the same thing as you 8 months ago. My Sister-In-Law lost her baby at 19 weeks.
Show your grief to her and your sorrow. Send her flowers and tell her how sorry you are for her and your brothers loss. The pain that they are going through is heart breaking to stand and see. Be strong for them and do what they say when they need it.
I went over to there house and cleaned up for them, like getting some of the baby books off the coffee table and little things like that. Go out and get her some yummy food, since hospital food tastes like dog food.
I am sorry for your loss also. Everyone int he family will be heartbroken and it takes time and tender loving care.
Our little Isaac has a memorial web site that we all go to and we post messages to him and to help Mommy %26amp; Daddy with the grieving process.
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Present for a cousin who just had a baby?
She just had a baby boy and i am wondering what would be the best thing to get her while shes still in the hospital, i dont want to give the usual flowers and a card deal- seeing as the rest of the family is going to do that, so im looking for something a little bit more unique...any suggestions?
Present for a cousin who just had a baby?
Ask her if she has a robe.... I didnt and would have LOVED one.
If she needs to stay for a while get her some magazines (there is never a thing to watch on tv)
Ask the nurses for things that she may need.
Also don%26#039;t forget Dad...most people do
Reply:I agree with the self pampering items....or the fruit basket...especially if she is nursing.
Reply:Hi, how about personalized books? Kids love to hear their own name in the storyline. Go to this website http://www.tlc-expressions.com They have lots of titles like Sesame Street, Teddy Bear Land, Dinosaur Land, Noah%26#039;s Ark, Mother Goose, Three Little Pigs, My Baby Book, Sports titles and so many more. Check it out - they%26#039;re very reasonably priced, and make a wonderful, unique %26amp; special gift... It%26#039;s something they can enjoy now and keep forever!! Good Luck!
Reply:How big was the baby?
Under 10 lbs? Go buy a cute little pj suit or something soft and size ONE MONTH or %26quot;10 lbs%26quot;
New moms never have anything to fit the baby right now. As long as it%26#039;s soft and blue. Blue is very important :)
Not sure where you live, but here in Canada I find Sears has the nicest baby clothes(cute, comfy) and at the greatest prices. Always do my shopping for babies at Sears.
Do that. She%26#039;ll appreciate it. She%26#039;ll probably wear the outfit home on the baby, and even get it%26#039;s first pic taken in it. Hey, it%26#039;s happened with the outfits I%26#039;ve given :)
Reply:nothing beats vinly backed absorbent bibs. With velcro.
Reply:DIAPERS.
Reply:this is different, but if the person likes fruit, maybe a nice decorated fruit basket. you can buy it premade, or do it yourself. i made one with strawberries, watermelon, pineapple, and sliced tangerines and my friend loved it!
if theyre not a fruit lover, try veggies. make a basket with bath and body items. trust me, is better that the plain old flowers and chocolate
Reply:Spa treatment with massage %26amp; whatever else you can afford for luxurious relaxation.
With a newborn it will be much needed %26amp; probably a very long time before the opportunity arises again.
Either arrange a babysitter or babysit yourself. :D
Reply:Give her a pampered gift like stuff for a bath bubble bath, lotion things like that. you could also bring the new baby a sleeper or onsies with her gift i know they come in handy alot. you could also give a gift certificate for a nice restaurant and offer to watch the baby.
Reply:My sister gave me a scrapbook of some old pics of me as a baby and young child and she wrote cute captions, etc., but at the end of the book she had asked people, friends, family, even my Dr%26#039;s, and nurses, to each write one tip for me it was very thoughtful.
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Present for a cousin who just had a baby?
Ask her if she has a robe.... I didnt and would have LOVED one.
If she needs to stay for a while get her some magazines (there is never a thing to watch on tv)
Ask the nurses for things that she may need.
Also don%26#039;t forget Dad...most people do
Reply:I agree with the self pampering items....or the fruit basket...especially if she is nursing.
Reply:Hi, how about personalized books? Kids love to hear their own name in the storyline. Go to this website http://www.tlc-expressions.com They have lots of titles like Sesame Street, Teddy Bear Land, Dinosaur Land, Noah%26#039;s Ark, Mother Goose, Three Little Pigs, My Baby Book, Sports titles and so many more. Check it out - they%26#039;re very reasonably priced, and make a wonderful, unique %26amp; special gift... It%26#039;s something they can enjoy now and keep forever!! Good Luck!
Reply:How big was the baby?
Under 10 lbs? Go buy a cute little pj suit or something soft and size ONE MONTH or %26quot;10 lbs%26quot;
New moms never have anything to fit the baby right now. As long as it%26#039;s soft and blue. Blue is very important :)
Not sure where you live, but here in Canada I find Sears has the nicest baby clothes(cute, comfy) and at the greatest prices. Always do my shopping for babies at Sears.
Do that. She%26#039;ll appreciate it. She%26#039;ll probably wear the outfit home on the baby, and even get it%26#039;s first pic taken in it. Hey, it%26#039;s happened with the outfits I%26#039;ve given :)
Reply:nothing beats vinly backed absorbent bibs. With velcro.
Reply:DIAPERS.
Reply:this is different, but if the person likes fruit, maybe a nice decorated fruit basket. you can buy it premade, or do it yourself. i made one with strawberries, watermelon, pineapple, and sliced tangerines and my friend loved it!
if theyre not a fruit lover, try veggies. make a basket with bath and body items. trust me, is better that the plain old flowers and chocolate
Reply:Spa treatment with massage %26amp; whatever else you can afford for luxurious relaxation.
With a newborn it will be much needed %26amp; probably a very long time before the opportunity arises again.
Either arrange a babysitter or babysit yourself. :D
Reply:Give her a pampered gift like stuff for a bath bubble bath, lotion things like that. you could also bring the new baby a sleeper or onsies with her gift i know they come in handy alot. you could also give a gift certificate for a nice restaurant and offer to watch the baby.
Reply:My sister gave me a scrapbook of some old pics of me as a baby and young child and she wrote cute captions, etc., but at the end of the book she had asked people, friends, family, even my Dr%26#039;s, and nurses, to each write one tip for me it was very thoughtful.
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Girls , which method you prefer to be treated? baby or queen?
do you prefer your man to treat you and care about you
as a baby child
wash you, change your clothes paint your nails,brush your hair, carry you on your arms
or as a goddess , princess , queen
kneel to you kiss your hands and your feet, give you flowers and gifts , worship you, worship every things of you about you from you
(but still equall in both cases)
so what do you prefer more?
Girls , which method you prefer to be treated? baby or queen?
I like to be treated like a princess and worship me!
Reply:with respeact and love.i like to recive the love that i give him,to be equal not queen or baby.as long as love and respeact exist in a relationship everything can be just fine,if not he can be a king but i dont care than.........
Reply:Can%26#039;t u behave simply like humans with us.....
Reply:Neither baby nor queen. Your partner should be your equal... not walk behind you, or ahead of you, but beside you.
Reply:queen
Reply:Love, Care thy name is a lady.
She loves to be cared during hard and rough times but at the same time they love to b treated as princess/queens...but goddess i wont go in for that at least.
Reply:QUEEN abviously!
Reply:I dont like my master be my slave.
Reply:Queen-But I don%26#039;t need him to worship me THAT much. I would appreciate the truth in his words and actions. I want my husband to feel like a King.
Reply:Queen. It%26#039;s a bit less than a goddess like me deserves but still a step in the right direction.
Reply:neither ! i%26#039;d like a guy to treat me as a human being with respect for each other...............
but otherwise, queen !
~ love is all tht matters ~
Reply:none of the above coz there should b mutual understanding .
Reply:Anything which comes from heart is better. All outward behavior will go away after sometime.
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as a baby child
wash you, change your clothes paint your nails,brush your hair, carry you on your arms
or as a goddess , princess , queen
kneel to you kiss your hands and your feet, give you flowers and gifts , worship you, worship every things of you about you from you
(but still equall in both cases)
so what do you prefer more?
Girls , which method you prefer to be treated? baby or queen?
I like to be treated like a princess and worship me!
Reply:with respeact and love.i like to recive the love that i give him,to be equal not queen or baby.as long as love and respeact exist in a relationship everything can be just fine,if not he can be a king but i dont care than.........
Reply:Can%26#039;t u behave simply like humans with us.....
Reply:Neither baby nor queen. Your partner should be your equal... not walk behind you, or ahead of you, but beside you.
Reply:queen
Reply:Love, Care thy name is a lady.
She loves to be cared during hard and rough times but at the same time they love to b treated as princess/queens...but goddess i wont go in for that at least.
Reply:QUEEN abviously!
Reply:I dont like my master be my slave.
Reply:Queen-But I don%26#039;t need him to worship me THAT much. I would appreciate the truth in his words and actions. I want my husband to feel like a King.
Reply:Queen. It%26#039;s a bit less than a goddess like me deserves but still a step in the right direction.
Reply:neither ! i%26#039;d like a guy to treat me as a human being with respect for each other...............
but otherwise, queen !
~ love is all tht matters ~
Reply:none of the above coz there should b mutual understanding .
Reply:Anything which comes from heart is better. All outward behavior will go away after sometime.
skin disease
A couple I know just lost their baby, she was 7mths along, what do I say?
The wife of the man doing the design for my web site just lost her baby last night. I know know him, but never spoke to his wife. I want to offer words of comfort. What is the best thing to do? Send flowers or a card? Are there any words or verses, that can offer solice and peace in a time like this? It was their first child. I feel just so sad for them.
A couple I know just lost their baby, she was 7mths along, what do I say?
definitely send a card...it will mean so much to her that you, just a person her husband works for, cares enough (even though you don%26#039;t know her) to send a card...
what i would say would be to offer your condolences, if you%26#039;ve lost a loved one before, you can tell them that and that you know what it%26#039;s like to lose a loved one and that you%26#039;ll be praying for them...of if you haven%26#039;t, then you can say that you can%26#039;t even imagine the pain of losing a child and that you%26#039;ll be praying for them...
i don%26#039;t know if you%26#039;re a Christian, but if you are, then i%26#039;d offer some words of comfort about God...don%26#039;t quote the Bible, but just say how He%26#039;s always been there to comfort you and He is willing to be there to comfort her...
be honest and just express how sad you are for them and that even though u don%26#039;t know her, you are sad...it will mean a lot to her...
if you want to cook something for her, that would be a nice thing, too...ask her if she would like some time alone with her husband and offer to give him some days off and to come back when he%26#039;s ready, kind of thing...
it%26#039;s very nice of you to want to do something like this for someone you don%26#039;t know...too bad there aren%26#039;t more people out there who feel true sympathy for people...
Reply:Sending flowers or a card would be nice. I believe if you want to add a personal touch a poem or your own words of encouragement are fine to add also.
Reply:I would send a card expressing your sympathies. I think the best thing you can say to someone on the event of a death is just to express your support and to be there. There%26#039;s not a whole lot that can be said to make a person feel better in a situation like this. It mostly just takes time. If she needs a shoulder to cry on just be there for her to do so. And remind her that it will get better and easier.
Reply:Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing and just let them know that you are around, because I am sure that someone already has said too much and do you think they really want to here anymore?
Reply:I would send a card. Just to show support.
Reply:Don%26#039;t send flowers, but do send a card with some kind words. It%26#039;s a terrible thing to happen.
Reply:There is nothing you can say thats going to take the hurt away.But showing your support and giving your prayers will help be a comfort.I have went through a miscarriage myself,and i lost one in a tubel pregnancy,its a horrible empty feeling.Everything happens for a reason even though its hard to see that way.Pray for them and let them know you care,things will get better for them in due time.
Reply:flowers and a card. you didnt really know them, thats all you can do.
Reply:I wouldnt say anything,I%26#039;d just let it go and let her heal by not being constantly reminded of it. Just tell her husband how sorry you are.
Reply:If it%26#039;s nobody you really know, just a note or card saying you%26#039;re sorry is fine. Just what you said--that you feel so sad for them--would be the best thing you could write. If it were someone you were close to, telling her that you are sorry and inviting her to talk to you whenever she needs to would be appropriate. And then being available (when possible) and really listening...even if it takes her months or a couple of years.
If you have an ongoing relationship, sending another note or card on what should have been the baby%26#039;s birthday would also be thoughtful. The due date will likely be a very hard time for the mother, and many (maybe most) of her friends won%26#039;t know or bother.
Reply:Send a card or small bouquet of flowers. Make it simple and nothing too fancy or big.
Reply:I would make them a meal and take it to their house. It%26#039;s a thoughtful gesture and it says a lot without having to really say anything. They probably don%26#039;t feel like doing much cooking so chances are they would really appreciate a nice meal. Pack some paper plates, cups, and plastic ustensils in with the food so they won%26#039;t have to do dishes. Pack the food in disposable containers, too.
Reply:Unfortunately, there isn%26#039;t anyhting you can offer that will lessen their pain. Pray for them and simply say you are sorry. However, if they don%26#039;t bring it up to you, don%26#039;t bring it up to them. In time%26#039;s like this people are often compelled to share their own stories, which only adds to the horror and depression. They may need to avoid the topic for awhile in order to not cry in front of everyone they know.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think there is anything you can %26quot;say%26quot; right now that will bring comfort... You can send a sympathy card and flowers showing your sorrow for them, and if you attend the funeral, please don%26#039;t try to %26quot;make them feel better%26quot; - you can%26#039;t... Just show-up and hug them... Look them in the eye and say something like %26quot;I%26#039;m sorry... If you ever need to talk, I%26#039;m here%26quot; and hug again.
Reply:Flowers or a card would be nice to show that you care. I think the most important thing you can say is just that you are there for them. Letting the person know that in a tragic situation is the best thing that you can do.
Also suggesting some websites they can look at, or even someone that they could talk to would be very valuable
computer
A couple I know just lost their baby, she was 7mths along, what do I say?
definitely send a card...it will mean so much to her that you, just a person her husband works for, cares enough (even though you don%26#039;t know her) to send a card...
what i would say would be to offer your condolences, if you%26#039;ve lost a loved one before, you can tell them that and that you know what it%26#039;s like to lose a loved one and that you%26#039;ll be praying for them...of if you haven%26#039;t, then you can say that you can%26#039;t even imagine the pain of losing a child and that you%26#039;ll be praying for them...
i don%26#039;t know if you%26#039;re a Christian, but if you are, then i%26#039;d offer some words of comfort about God...don%26#039;t quote the Bible, but just say how He%26#039;s always been there to comfort you and He is willing to be there to comfort her...
be honest and just express how sad you are for them and that even though u don%26#039;t know her, you are sad...it will mean a lot to her...
if you want to cook something for her, that would be a nice thing, too...ask her if she would like some time alone with her husband and offer to give him some days off and to come back when he%26#039;s ready, kind of thing...
it%26#039;s very nice of you to want to do something like this for someone you don%26#039;t know...too bad there aren%26#039;t more people out there who feel true sympathy for people...
Reply:Sending flowers or a card would be nice. I believe if you want to add a personal touch a poem or your own words of encouragement are fine to add also.
Reply:I would send a card expressing your sympathies. I think the best thing you can say to someone on the event of a death is just to express your support and to be there. There%26#039;s not a whole lot that can be said to make a person feel better in a situation like this. It mostly just takes time. If she needs a shoulder to cry on just be there for her to do so. And remind her that it will get better and easier.
Reply:Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing and just let them know that you are around, because I am sure that someone already has said too much and do you think they really want to here anymore?
Reply:I would send a card. Just to show support.
Reply:Don%26#039;t send flowers, but do send a card with some kind words. It%26#039;s a terrible thing to happen.
Reply:There is nothing you can say thats going to take the hurt away.But showing your support and giving your prayers will help be a comfort.I have went through a miscarriage myself,and i lost one in a tubel pregnancy,its a horrible empty feeling.Everything happens for a reason even though its hard to see that way.Pray for them and let them know you care,things will get better for them in due time.
Reply:flowers and a card. you didnt really know them, thats all you can do.
Reply:I wouldnt say anything,I%26#039;d just let it go and let her heal by not being constantly reminded of it. Just tell her husband how sorry you are.
Reply:If it%26#039;s nobody you really know, just a note or card saying you%26#039;re sorry is fine. Just what you said--that you feel so sad for them--would be the best thing you could write. If it were someone you were close to, telling her that you are sorry and inviting her to talk to you whenever she needs to would be appropriate. And then being available (when possible) and really listening...even if it takes her months or a couple of years.
If you have an ongoing relationship, sending another note or card on what should have been the baby%26#039;s birthday would also be thoughtful. The due date will likely be a very hard time for the mother, and many (maybe most) of her friends won%26#039;t know or bother.
Reply:Send a card or small bouquet of flowers. Make it simple and nothing too fancy or big.
Reply:I would make them a meal and take it to their house. It%26#039;s a thoughtful gesture and it says a lot without having to really say anything. They probably don%26#039;t feel like doing much cooking so chances are they would really appreciate a nice meal. Pack some paper plates, cups, and plastic ustensils in with the food so they won%26#039;t have to do dishes. Pack the food in disposable containers, too.
Reply:Unfortunately, there isn%26#039;t anyhting you can offer that will lessen their pain. Pray for them and simply say you are sorry. However, if they don%26#039;t bring it up to you, don%26#039;t bring it up to them. In time%26#039;s like this people are often compelled to share their own stories, which only adds to the horror and depression. They may need to avoid the topic for awhile in order to not cry in front of everyone they know.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think there is anything you can %26quot;say%26quot; right now that will bring comfort... You can send a sympathy card and flowers showing your sorrow for them, and if you attend the funeral, please don%26#039;t try to %26quot;make them feel better%26quot; - you can%26#039;t... Just show-up and hug them... Look them in the eye and say something like %26quot;I%26#039;m sorry... If you ever need to talk, I%26#039;m here%26quot; and hug again.
Reply:Flowers or a card would be nice to show that you care. I think the most important thing you can say is just that you are there for them. Letting the person know that in a tragic situation is the best thing that you can do.
Also suggesting some websites they can look at, or even someone that they could talk to would be very valuable
computer
My brother did'nt give me anything for the birth of my baby...?
its been almost a year. A week after my baby was born he visited me at home and did%26#039;nt bring me or anybody anything. I did%26#039;nt receive a greeting card nor flowers. I know he did%26#039;nt forget cause one of my relatives asked him to pitch in with a bigger gift and he never got back with him.
What the f is wrong with him? I even purchased a flower arrangement for his girlfriend who was in the hospital, during the time I was pregnant.
Now I%26#039;m wondering wether I should tell him that I%26#039;m kinda mad at him -and why- or just leave it at that??
Forgiving is out of the question....
My brother did%26#039;nt give me anything for the birth of my baby...?
I would let it go.you say the baby is almost a year old.send him an invite to first birthday and jot down a couple toys she may like as %26#039;suggestions%26#039; of a gift he may like to get her.
Most guys dont think about gift giving.dont be angry at him as it is a guy thing.They also dont think to much about cards......a suggestion would be to give him a calender with the families birthdays,anniversaries etc.It will then be up to him to check the calander for any upcomming events.
Reply:A gift is given from the heart not something you demand or command from someone. His heart just isnt interested. I dont think this is worth being mad about. Many guys are like this.
Reply:Then never speak to him again.
Reply:Was he previously known to be a big gift giver? If not, you are expecting too much. There is no obligation on anyone to give someone else a gift, and guys are least likely to give gifts--and probably the last gift they would give is a gift for having a baby. Maybe he does not have lots of excess money either, and people tend to expect things from everyone whether they can afford it or not. Let it go, nothing to anguish over, so he did not get you a present. Big deal. Lots more important things in life to sweat about.
Reply:What the F is wrong with you??? U at least have family that was there on your special occasions. If you want material things go shopping. Many people have no one in there familys left on this earth. Stop being a materalistic self centered spoiled brat %26amp; get over yourself, If you want to report me for stating the truth go for it. He gave u his time %26amp; showed up. Be gratefull
Reply:I%26#039;d suggest telling him that you%26#039;re upset with him because of him not giving a gift or even just a simple card to you or for the baby.. Remind him about the fact that you gave his g/f a girt when you were in the HOSPITAL PREGNANT EXPECTING THE BABY..
Reply:brothers can be a jerk...just let it go and don%26#039;t do anything for him in the future
Reply:Who cares!? I got two different girls pregnant and I%26#039;m in college!
Reply:I have to agree w/%26quot;streaker%26quot; leave it alone It%26#039;s almost been a year. Just don%26#039;t jump up %26amp; buy %26amp; send stuff so readily if you are doing it for repayment then it%26#039;s better to just keep your money !! Gifts should be given freely from the heart w/no expectations in return!!
Reply:I%26#039;d leave it alone.
I have 2 brothers, I%26#039;ve been married twice and neither of my brothers were at either of my weddings, which suited me because I never invited them anyway.
Family sucks, you can pick your friends but not your family members, so I keep my contact with my family to a minimum.
I%26#039;m pregnant with my first child, don%26#039;t want or expect anything from my brothers when my baby is born, they won%26#039;t be invited to the christening and that will suit everybody fine.
Reply:Well sometimes it is hard for a man to think about these things, and apparently his girlfriend isn%26#039;t doing such a good job at pointing these things out huh? I would leave it at that......don%26#039;t make a big deal about it now, and just show the same respect towards him and you receive ya know.
Good luck!
Reply:Just because you had a baby doesnt mean you need a gift every time. If you had 50 babies,i wouldnt get u 50 things either. Take a break, ur baby doesnt care, only u do, brat!
White Teeth
What the f is wrong with him? I even purchased a flower arrangement for his girlfriend who was in the hospital, during the time I was pregnant.
Now I%26#039;m wondering wether I should tell him that I%26#039;m kinda mad at him -and why- or just leave it at that??
Forgiving is out of the question....
My brother did%26#039;nt give me anything for the birth of my baby...?
I would let it go.you say the baby is almost a year old.send him an invite to first birthday and jot down a couple toys she may like as %26#039;suggestions%26#039; of a gift he may like to get her.
Most guys dont think about gift giving.dont be angry at him as it is a guy thing.They also dont think to much about cards......a suggestion would be to give him a calender with the families birthdays,anniversaries etc.It will then be up to him to check the calander for any upcomming events.
Reply:A gift is given from the heart not something you demand or command from someone. His heart just isnt interested. I dont think this is worth being mad about. Many guys are like this.
Reply:Then never speak to him again.
Reply:Was he previously known to be a big gift giver? If not, you are expecting too much. There is no obligation on anyone to give someone else a gift, and guys are least likely to give gifts--and probably the last gift they would give is a gift for having a baby. Maybe he does not have lots of excess money either, and people tend to expect things from everyone whether they can afford it or not. Let it go, nothing to anguish over, so he did not get you a present. Big deal. Lots more important things in life to sweat about.
Reply:What the F is wrong with you??? U at least have family that was there on your special occasions. If you want material things go shopping. Many people have no one in there familys left on this earth. Stop being a materalistic self centered spoiled brat %26amp; get over yourself, If you want to report me for stating the truth go for it. He gave u his time %26amp; showed up. Be gratefull
Reply:I%26#039;d suggest telling him that you%26#039;re upset with him because of him not giving a gift or even just a simple card to you or for the baby.. Remind him about the fact that you gave his g/f a girt when you were in the HOSPITAL PREGNANT EXPECTING THE BABY..
Reply:brothers can be a jerk...just let it go and don%26#039;t do anything for him in the future
Reply:Who cares!? I got two different girls pregnant and I%26#039;m in college!
Reply:I have to agree w/%26quot;streaker%26quot; leave it alone It%26#039;s almost been a year. Just don%26#039;t jump up %26amp; buy %26amp; send stuff so readily if you are doing it for repayment then it%26#039;s better to just keep your money !! Gifts should be given freely from the heart w/no expectations in return!!
Reply:I%26#039;d leave it alone.
I have 2 brothers, I%26#039;ve been married twice and neither of my brothers were at either of my weddings, which suited me because I never invited them anyway.
Family sucks, you can pick your friends but not your family members, so I keep my contact with my family to a minimum.
I%26#039;m pregnant with my first child, don%26#039;t want or expect anything from my brothers when my baby is born, they won%26#039;t be invited to the christening and that will suit everybody fine.
Reply:Well sometimes it is hard for a man to think about these things, and apparently his girlfriend isn%26#039;t doing such a good job at pointing these things out huh? I would leave it at that......don%26#039;t make a big deal about it now, and just show the same respect towards him and you receive ya know.
Good luck!
Reply:Just because you had a baby doesnt mean you need a gift every time. If you had 50 babies,i wouldnt get u 50 things either. Take a break, ur baby doesnt care, only u do, brat!
White Teeth
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